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Welcome to the #1 most comprehensive divorce recovery program in the world. For 40 years.
Is Divorce in your future?
In the Divorce Process?
Divorced?
THERE'S NO CIRCUMSTANCE OR SITUATION THAT WE CAN'T HELP WITH
A program that has been reliably operating
for over 40 years.
97% Success Rate
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Don't know where to start?
Your Journey Begins Here
Get an "Emotional Weather Report
Learn how you are doing in 6 key areas, plus get free, personalized training on how YOU can recover best!
Schedule a FREE 30-Minute Consult
Talk with an expert Divorce Coach about your situation, your results, and the best path forward for YOU.
Sign up for an introductory class
Learn more about the Rebuilders programs available to you that will fit your schedule and budget
Take the First Step Here
Our Courses and Services
10-WEEK
GROUP CLASSES
The Most Effective, Efficient and PROVEN System In The World, For Over 40 Years.
Group classes have proven to be the BEST method for recovery when dealing with divorce. Being able to connect with others in a similar situation is SO powerful and important!
Online Workshops
NEXT ONLINE CLASS STARTS:
Monday March 30th at 8pm ET (5pm PT)
Our Online Divorce Recovery Groups are 2 hours long, designed to focus on your healing journey. These Divorce Recovery Online sessions connect you with others in a supportive community, where skilled coaching guides you every step of the way.
In-Person Seminars
Divorce Recovery Workshops are offered in more than 20 locations worldwide, giving you access to in-person sessions.
Local groups are also focused on recovery but they typically focus more on community and making connections locally. Join now to get the support you need!
FIND A SEMINAR NEAR YOU
Monthly Support Group
SECOND TUESDAY NIGHT
of each month
8-9:30pm Eastern (5-6:30 PT)
Our Divorce Group Sessions offer a safe and supportive environment, designed to help you heal and grow with others who understand your journey. Participate in these Divorce Recovery Workshops from the comfort of your own home.
PRIVATE COACHING
Your Situation Is Unique.
You Are Unique.
Group classes are tremendously helpful but we know that people also have some very difficult situations that they are dealing with. When working with a coach One-on-One you can dramatically accelerate the process and get guidance on YOUR situation in a focused, personalized process.
A lot of people try therapy as the deal with divorce. Many find that therapy does not give them the results that they are looking for. Coaching does.
E-COURSES
Do you have a busy schedule or tight budget?
We offer a variety of self paced programs in which you are guided step-by-step. You can focus on a particular area of recovery or get our proven 10 step recovery program. These courses will fit into any schedule and some you can get started for free. All come with a money back guarantee. You also have the option of adding private coaching as well.
4O Years Of Changing People's Lives.
MEET DR. BRUCE FISHER
The founder of the Rebuilders program was Dr. Bruce Fisher (1931-1998). He was born in Iowa but spent most of his adult life in Boulder, Colorado. He was a popular divorce therapist, author, teacher and a Clinical Member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. As he worked with clients dealing with divorce he realized that traditional therapy didn’t work efficiently.
He began working with his clients in groups and eventually found that there are 19 “steps” that people must work through to effectively “Rebuild” their lives. From this work he wrote the book “Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends.” We still use this book as a reference in our classes. Since he wrote the book over 30 years ago we have learned a lot and the program has evolved considerably. Now we find that there are more “steps” and that there are some elements that Dr. Fisher wasn’t aware of or misunderstood. However, he still created a powerful foundation for the program that we run today.
This program continues to improve and it works.
We guarantee it.
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How Our Program Works
Head
Your thinking, mindset, beliefs, and values all influence how you respond to the traumatic experience of divorce. We show you how to step outside of the rumination about the past. Learn to step outside of the normal traps that keep people stuck thinking about the past.
Heart
Many people suppress, depress, or repress their feelings. Divorce brings so many "difficult" feelings. We give you tools to work through them, use them, and feel the "good" feelings again - like HAPPINESS, JOY, AND LOVE.
Identity
In marriages people "lose" themselves. When the marriage ends they don't know who they are as a single person. We help you connect with yourself so that you can be comfortable being alone in your own skin.
Free Divorce Resources
Rebuilders is committed to helping EVERYONE, regardless of their financial situation.
The Program Works Regardless of Your Situation!
Is Divorce in your future?
Learn what you can do find the best path forward
It is a very difficult time in your life when you are facing the possibility of divorce. We offer a wide variety of tools, information and personal coaching to help you.
Dating After Separation: Tips to Find Love Again
Stepping back into the dating world after a separation can feel both thrilling and intimidating. You might be asking yourself, “How do I start dating after divorce?” or “Is it too soon to date again?”
At Rebuilders International, we understand that dating after divorce is about more than finding someone new—it’s about rebuilding confidence, rediscovering joy, and opening your heart again. This guide offers real, compassionate tips for dating after divorce, including how to meet people, regain confidence, and move forward with purpose.
Are You Ready to Jump Back In?
One of the biggest questions people have is “How long after divorce should I wait to start dating?” The truth? There’s no single timeline. Everyone heals at a different pace.
Ask yourself:
Can I think about my ex without anger or sadness?
Am I genuinely curious about meeting new people?
Does the idea of dating excite me—or drain me?
If dating feels like pressure, it may be worth waiting a bit longer. Some begin dating after separation within months, while others take a year or more. What matters most is emotional readiness.
At Rebuilders, we help people recognize that being “ready” means feeling grounded in yourself again. Try taking our free Emotional Survey or joining our Virtual (Zoom) Classes, starting every 2–3 weeks, to see where you stand emotionally before you jump back in.
Want to rebuild every part of your life after divorce? Check out our main page, Post-Divorce Life: A Complete Guide, for a full roadmap to thriving.
Getting Yourself Ready for Dating
Boosting Your Confidence
Dating after divorce often starts with rebuilding self-esteem. Focus on what makes you you—your humor, kindness, or passion.
Try small actions to lift your confidence:
Take a new class or hobby.
Try a style change that makes you feel attractive.
Surround yourself with positive people.
You don’t have to be perfect—just authentic. Confidence attracts the right kind of connection.
Going at Your Own Speed
If you’re wondering “How soon should I date after divorce?” remember that there’s no rush. Ignore the pressure to “get back out there” before you’re ready.
Take your time exploring your comfort zone—maybe through online chatting, group meetups, or just reconnecting with friends. Rebuilders’ Self-Paced eCourse is a great way to explore dating readiness without outside pressure.
Knowing What You’re Looking For
Before you begin dating again, take a moment to reflect on your goals. Are you seeking companionship, something casual, or a long-term partner? Write down the qualities that matter most—kindness, humor, shared values.
Having clarity prevents frustration and helps you recognize healthy matches faster.
Real Tips for Dating After Divorce
Where to Meet New People
If you’re wondering “How do I meet someone after divorce?”—start with what feels natural.
Options include:
Joining a hobby or interest group
Trying a dating app that fits your comfort level
Asking friends for introductions
You can also connect through Rebuilders’ New Friends Divorce Support Hub—a safe space to meet others rebuilding their lives. You never know where friendship might lead.
Taking That First Step
Your first date doesn’t have to be fancy. A coffee, walk, or casual meetup is perfect. Be honest about your situation—it helps build genuine connections.
If your date asks about your past, keep it light: “That’s behind me now. I’m focused on new beginnings.”
Remember, every experience—good or bad—helps you grow in confidence.
Handling the Tricky Moments
Even seasoned daters feel nervous. What if you face rejection or an uncomfortable silence?
Here’s the truth: rejection is not failure—it’s redirection. Each no brings you closer to the right yes.
You can talk through your experiences in our Tuesday Night Support Group, where others share their dating journeys and offer encouragement.
Answering Your Dating Questions
How Long Should You Wait?
It’s absolutely possible to find love after divorce—in fact, many of our community members have done it. The secret lies in being patient with yourself and open to new possibilities.
Healthy relationships after divorce often feel different—more intentional, honest, and fulfilling. You’re wiser now, and you know what truly matters.
If you’re feeling unsure, try our Private Coaching Sessions, where experienced divorce coaches help you build confidence, navigate emotions, and set healthy boundaries for dating again.
What If It Feels Too Early?
If you’re wondering how soon to date after divorce and it feels overwhelming, that’s a sign to slow down. Take our free Emotional Survey to get a sense of where you’re at emotionally—it’ll help you decide if you’re ready or need more time.
What If You Face Rejection?
Rejection can sting, especially in dating after separation. But don’t let it get you down—it’s often more about the other person than you. See it as a chance to learn and keep going. Our community loves sharing stories, and you can too in our support groups.
How Rebuilders Supports Your Dating Journey
At Rebuilders International, we provide a supportive community and practical guidance for people starting over after divorce.
Here’s how we can help:
Private Coaching: One-on-one guidance to help you navigate dating confidently.
Emotional Support Groups: Connect with others through local or virtual meetings.
Rebuilders Workbook ($14.99): Tools, exercises, and dating advice after divorce to help you grow.
Whether you’re getting back into dating after divorce or learning how to meet new people again, you don’t have to do it alone.
Your Next Steps to Finding Love
Dating after divorce is not just about finding love—it’s about rebuilding your life and rediscovering yourself. Whether you’re figuring out how to start dating after divorce or ready to meet someone new, remember: your story isn’t over—it’s just beginning.
Take the next step with confidence.
Join our Virtual Classes or take the free Emotional Survey to start your journey today. Let’s rebuild love, life, and happiness—together.
In the Divorce Process?
Divorce Resources – Support for All Stages of Divorce
When you are dealing with divorce there is a lot going on. There are legal issues, financial issues, emotional issues, parenting issues and more. When faced with all of these pressures we see that people that pay attention to the emotional effect of divorce are better able to navigate everything else much better.
Dating After Separation: Tips to Find Love Again
Stepping back into the dating world after a separation can feel both thrilling and intimidating. You might be asking yourself, “How do I start dating after divorce?” or “Is it too soon to date again?”
At Rebuilders International, we understand that dating after divorce is about more than finding someone new—it’s about rebuilding confidence, rediscovering joy, and opening your heart again. This guide offers real, compassionate tips for dating after divorce, including how to meet people, regain confidence, and move forward with purpose.
Are You Ready to Jump Back In?
One of the biggest questions people have is “How long after divorce should I wait to start dating?” The truth? There’s no single timeline. Everyone heals at a different pace.
Ask yourself:
Can I think about my ex without anger or sadness?
Am I genuinely curious about meeting new people?
Does the idea of dating excite me—or drain me?
If dating feels like pressure, it may be worth waiting a bit longer. Some begin dating after separation within months, while others take a year or more. What matters most is emotional readiness.
At Rebuilders, we help people recognize that being “ready” means feeling grounded in yourself again. Try taking our free Emotional Survey or joining our Virtual (Zoom) Classes, starting every 2–3 weeks, to see where you stand emotionally before you jump back in.
Want to rebuild every part of your life after divorce? Check out our main page, Post-Divorce Life: A Complete Guide, for a full roadmap to thriving.
Getting Yourself Ready for Dating
Boosting Your Confidence
Dating after divorce often starts with rebuilding self-esteem. Focus on what makes you you—your humor, kindness, or passion.
Try small actions to lift your confidence:
Take a new class or hobby.
Try a style change that makes you feel attractive.
Surround yourself with positive people.
You don’t have to be perfect—just authentic. Confidence attracts the right kind of connection.
Going at Your Own Speed
If you’re wondering “How soon should I date after divorce?” remember that there’s no rush. Ignore the pressure to “get back out there” before you’re ready.
Take your time exploring your comfort zone—maybe through online chatting, group meetups, or just reconnecting with friends. Rebuilders’ Self-Paced eCourse is a great way to explore dating readiness without outside pressure.
Knowing What You’re Looking For
Before you begin dating again, take a moment to reflect on your goals. Are you seeking companionship, something casual, or a long-term partner? Write down the qualities that matter most—kindness, humor, shared values.
Having clarity prevents frustration and helps you recognize healthy matches faster.
Real Tips for Dating After Divorce
Where to Meet New People
If you’re wondering “How do I meet someone after divorce?”—start with what feels natural.
Options include:
Joining a hobby or interest group
Trying a dating app that fits your comfort level
Asking friends for introductions
You can also connect through Rebuilders’ New Friends Divorce Support Hub—a safe space to meet others rebuilding their lives. You never know where friendship might lead.
Taking That First Step
Your first date doesn’t have to be fancy. A coffee, walk, or casual meetup is perfect. Be honest about your situation—it helps build genuine connections.
If your date asks about your past, keep it light: “That’s behind me now. I’m focused on new beginnings.”
Remember, every experience—good or bad—helps you grow in confidence.
Handling the Tricky Moments
Even seasoned daters feel nervous. What if you face rejection or an uncomfortable silence?
Here’s the truth: rejection is not failure—it’s redirection. Each no brings you closer to the right yes.
You can talk through your experiences in our Tuesday Night Support Group, where others share their dating journeys and offer encouragement.
Answering Your Dating Questions
How Long Should You Wait?
It’s absolutely possible to find love after divorce—in fact, many of our community members have done it. The secret lies in being patient with yourself and open to new possibilities.
Healthy relationships after divorce often feel different—more intentional, honest, and fulfilling. You’re wiser now, and you know what truly matters.
If you’re feeling unsure, try our Private Coaching Sessions, where experienced divorce coaches help you build confidence, navigate emotions, and set healthy boundaries for dating again.
What If It Feels Too Early?
If you’re wondering how soon to date after divorce and it feels overwhelming, that’s a sign to slow down. Take our free Emotional Survey to get a sense of where you’re at emotionally—it’ll help you decide if you’re ready or need more time.
What If You Face Rejection?
Rejection can sting, especially in dating after separation. But don’t let it get you down—it’s often more about the other person than you. See it as a chance to learn and keep going. Our community loves sharing stories, and you can too in our support groups.
How Rebuilders Supports Your Dating Journey
At Rebuilders International, we provide a supportive community and practical guidance for people starting over after divorce.
Here’s how we can help:
Private Coaching: One-on-one guidance to help you navigate dating confidently.
Emotional Support Groups: Connect with others through local or virtual meetings.
Rebuilders Workbook ($14.99): Tools, exercises, and dating advice after divorce to help you grow.
Whether you’re getting back into dating after divorce or learning how to meet new people again, you don’t have to do it alone.
Your Next Steps to Finding Love
Dating after divorce is not just about finding love—it’s about rebuilding your life and rediscovering yourself. Whether you’re figuring out how to start dating after divorce or ready to meet someone new, remember: your story isn’t over—it’s just beginning.
Take the next step with confidence.
Join our Virtual Classes or take the free Emotional Survey to start your journey today. Let’s rebuild love, life, and happiness—together.
Divorced?
The Papers are signed...
Whether you are recently divorced or it has been years, the wounds from divorce are real. Time does not heal all wounds, it just scabs over them. So if you are ready to learn more about what you can do to HEAL then click below.
Dating After Separation: Tips to Find Love Again
Stepping back into the dating world after a separation can feel both thrilling and intimidating. You might be asking yourself, “How do I start dating after divorce?” or “Is it too soon to date again?”
At Rebuilders International, we understand that dating after divorce is about more than finding someone new—it’s about rebuilding confidence, rediscovering joy, and opening your heart again. This guide offers real, compassionate tips for dating after divorce, including how to meet people, regain confidence, and move forward with purpose.
Are You Ready to Jump Back In?
One of the biggest questions people have is “How long after divorce should I wait to start dating?” The truth? There’s no single timeline. Everyone heals at a different pace.
Ask yourself:
Can I think about my ex without anger or sadness?
Am I genuinely curious about meeting new people?
Does the idea of dating excite me—or drain me?
If dating feels like pressure, it may be worth waiting a bit longer. Some begin dating after separation within months, while others take a year or more. What matters most is emotional readiness.
At Rebuilders, we help people recognize that being “ready” means feeling grounded in yourself again. Try taking our free Emotional Survey or joining our Virtual (Zoom) Classes, starting every 2–3 weeks, to see where you stand emotionally before you jump back in.
Want to rebuild every part of your life after divorce? Check out our main page, Post-Divorce Life: A Complete Guide, for a full roadmap to thriving.
Getting Yourself Ready for Dating
Boosting Your Confidence
Dating after divorce often starts with rebuilding self-esteem. Focus on what makes you you—your humor, kindness, or passion.
Try small actions to lift your confidence:
Take a new class or hobby.
Try a style change that makes you feel attractive.
Surround yourself with positive people.
You don’t have to be perfect—just authentic. Confidence attracts the right kind of connection.
Going at Your Own Speed
If you’re wondering “How soon should I date after divorce?” remember that there’s no rush. Ignore the pressure to “get back out there” before you’re ready.
Take your time exploring your comfort zone—maybe through online chatting, group meetups, or just reconnecting with friends. Rebuilders’ Self-Paced eCourse is a great way to explore dating readiness without outside pressure.
Knowing What You’re Looking For
Before you begin dating again, take a moment to reflect on your goals. Are you seeking companionship, something casual, or a long-term partner? Write down the qualities that matter most—kindness, humor, shared values.
Having clarity prevents frustration and helps you recognize healthy matches faster.
Real Tips for Dating After Divorce
Where to Meet New People
If you’re wondering “How do I meet someone after divorce?”—start with what feels natural.
Options include:
Joining a hobby or interest group
Trying a dating app that fits your comfort level
Asking friends for introductions
You can also connect through Rebuilders’ New Friends Divorce Support Hub—a safe space to meet others rebuilding their lives. You never know where friendship might lead.
Taking That First Step
Your first date doesn’t have to be fancy. A coffee, walk, or casual meetup is perfect. Be honest about your situation—it helps build genuine connections.
If your date asks about your past, keep it light: “That’s behind me now. I’m focused on new beginnings.”
Remember, every experience—good or bad—helps you grow in confidence.
Handling the Tricky Moments
Even seasoned daters feel nervous. What if you face rejection or an uncomfortable silence?
Here’s the truth: rejection is not failure—it’s redirection. Each no brings you closer to the right yes.
You can talk through your experiences in our Tuesday Night Support Group, where others share their dating journeys and offer encouragement.
Answering Your Dating Questions
How Long Should You Wait?
It’s absolutely possible to find love after divorce—in fact, many of our community members have done it. The secret lies in being patient with yourself and open to new possibilities.
Healthy relationships after divorce often feel different—more intentional, honest, and fulfilling. You’re wiser now, and you know what truly matters.
If you’re feeling unsure, try our Private Coaching Sessions, where experienced divorce coaches help you build confidence, navigate emotions, and set healthy boundaries for dating again.
What If It Feels Too Early?
If you’re wondering how soon to date after divorce and it feels overwhelming, that’s a sign to slow down. Take our free Emotional Survey to get a sense of where you’re at emotionally—it’ll help you decide if you’re ready or need more time.
What If You Face Rejection?
Rejection can sting, especially in dating after separation. But don’t let it get you down—it’s often more about the other person than you. See it as a chance to learn and keep going. Our community loves sharing stories, and you can too in our support groups.
How Rebuilders Supports Your Dating Journey
At Rebuilders International, we provide a supportive community and practical guidance for people starting over after divorce.
Here’s how we can help:
Private Coaching: One-on-one guidance to help you navigate dating confidently.
Emotional Support Groups: Connect with others through local or virtual meetings.
Rebuilders Workbook ($14.99): Tools, exercises, and dating advice after divorce to help you grow.
Whether you’re getting back into dating after divorce or learning how to meet new people again, you don’t have to do it alone.
Your Next Steps to Finding Love
Dating after divorce is not just about finding love—it’s about rebuilding your life and rediscovering yourself. Whether you’re figuring out how to start dating after divorce or ready to meet someone new, remember: your story isn’t over—it’s just beginning.
Take the next step with confidence.
Join our Virtual Classes or take the free Emotional Survey to start your journey today. Let’s rebuild love, life, and happiness—together.
Join our private online community.
Divorce Support Hub
Get the support you need through our Divorce Recovery Classes, designed to help you navigate the challenges of this emotional journey.
I'll guide you on a personalized path to recovery with our Divorce Recovery Sessions, so you can make empowered decisions during this difficult time in your life.
Kevin Van Liere
Expert Divorce Coach
Frequently Asked Questions
How much do the Divorce Recovery Sessions cost?
The cost varies based on the type of service you choose, from Online Divorce Recovery sessions to in-person Divorce Recovery Workshops. Get the support that fits your needs and budget. The 10-week programs investment is generally at least $300 up to $1200.
The eCourses we offer are all less than $250 and some are free.
The support group is free to join.
The self test is completely free as well as the 30-minute Clarity Call with a Divorce Coach.
Where is the closest Divorce Recovery Workshop or Divorce Group Session near me?
You will need to enter your zip code to get the closest location to you. We are constantly adding locations and this is free and the fastest way for us to locate a program near you.
Go to this page and we will look up the program closest to you: https://rebuilders.net/locations
When is the next class?
Online classes start every 2 to 3 weeks. In person (local) classes generally start every 3 months (4 times per year). If you find a location close to you we will send you to a webpage that will have the class schedule listed. To do this, click here to find a local program: https://rebuilders.net/locations
The next online class starts: Monday March 30th at 8pm ET (5pm PT)
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