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Why Do We Hold onto Our Exes?
Still In Love?
Finding Clarity and Healing After Divorce
One common struggle among those going through a divorce is the feeling of loving their ex-spouse but not being "in love" with them anymore. Kevin addresses this by discussing three typical scenarios:
Holding onto the Past: Many people cling to the person they married, tied to the dreams and promises made during the early days of their relationship.
Future Dreams: Others are attached to the future they had envisioned with their spouse, such as raising children together or celebrating a 50th wedding anniversary.
Fear of Loneliness: For some, the fear of being alone and managing life without their partner is overwhelming.
Listen to Kevin as he highlights the importance of understanding these feelings and working through them with a coach.
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Don't just listen—take action! Start by taking our free personalized assessment at Rebuilders.net to see how well you're doing in your journey to recovery.
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Rebuilders offers one-on-one coaching to help individuals dissect their emotions, recognize what they are holding onto, and move forward more effectively. This personalized support can lead to a quicker and more profound healing process.
Divorce Support & Recovery
Welcome to the #1 most comprehensive divorce recovery program in the world.
Does the Rebuilders
System Really Work?
Below you’ll see that the Rebuilders International system really works, why it is unique, and what we do. We will let this information stand for itself! And yes, of course results will vary but with only a few hours a week you can have a life changing experience.
The Rebuilders Background:
40 Years Of Changing People's Lives.
Meet Dr. Bruce Fisher
The founder of the Rebuilders program was Dr. Bruce Fisher (1931-1998). He was born in Iowa but spent most of his adult life in Boulder, Colorado. He was a popular divorce therapist, author, teach and a Clinical Member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. As he worked with clients dealing with divorce he realized that traditional therapy didn’t work efficiently.
He began working with his clients in groups and eventually found that there are 19 “steps” that people must work through to effectively “Rebuild” their lives. From this work he wrote the book “Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends.” We still use this book as a reference in our classes. Since he wrote the book over 30 years ago we have learned a lot and the program has evolved considerably. Now we find that there are more “steps” and that there are some elements that Dr. Fisher wasn’t aware of or misunderstood. However, he still created a powerful foundation for the program that we run today.
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"I’m so thankful to have had the opportunity to have taken this journey with you and the class. It’s been very mind blowing and a real eye opener. It changed my life."
Mike
How our program works...
Head
Your thinking, mindset, beliefs, and values all influence how you respond to the traumatic experience of divorce. We show you how to step outside of the rumination about the past. Learn to step outside of the normal traps that keep people stuck thinking about the past.
Heart
Many people suppress, depress, or repress their feelings. Divorce brings so many “difficult” feelings. We give you tools to work through them, use them, and feel the “good” feelings again -like HAPPINESS, JOY, AND LOVE.
Identity
In marriages people “lose” themselves. When the marriage ends they don’t know who they are as a single person. We help you connect with yourself so that you can be comfortable being alone in your own skin.
The Program Works Regardless of Your Situation!
Considering Divorce?
Learn what you can do find the best path forward
It is a very difficult time in your life when you are facing the possibility of divorce. We offer a wide variety of tools, information and personal coaching to help you.
In the Divorce Process?
Divorce Resources – Support for All Stages of Divorce
When you are dealing with divorce there is a lot going on. There are legal issues, financial issues, emotional issues, parenting issues and more. When faced with all of these pressures we see that people that pay attention to the emotional effect of divorce are better able to navigate everything else much better.
Divorced?
The Papers are signed...
Whether you are recently divorced or it has been years, the wounds from divorce are real. Time does not heal all wounds, it just scabs over them. So if you are ready to learn more about what you can do to HEAL then click below.
Get guidance on how to best recover during this very challenging time in your life.
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