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Life After Divorce for Women: Embracing Your New Chapter

June 23, 2025•2 min read

Going through life after divorce for women can feel like a whirlwind—maybe you’re wondering what’s next after the dust settles. Whether you’re rebuilding your confidence or figuring out your next move, this stage is all about you. At Rebuilders International, we’ve supported countless women turning what to do after divorce as a woman into a chance to shine, and we’re here to lift you up too. Let’s explore how to make this new chapter your own.

Finding Your Groove Again

After a divorce, life after divorce for women often means rediscovering who you are. You might feel a mix of relief and uncertainty—totally normal! Start small: pick up a hobby you love, like gardening or reading, or treat yourself to a solo coffee date. Rebuilders suggests jotting down three things that make you happy each day—it’s a simple way to rebuild your spark.

If you’re unsure where to begin, our Virtual (Zoom) Classes—starting every 2-3 weeks—connect you with other women who get it. It’s a chill space to share and find strength.

Want a full plan to thrive post-divorce? Check out our main page, Post-Divorce Life: A Complete Guide, for more insights.

Practical Steps Forward

Sorting Out Finances

What to do after divorce as a woman includes getting your finances in order. Maybe you’re adjusting to a new budget—start by listing your bills and looking for small savings. Rebuilders’ Rebuilders Workbook ($14.99) has easy tools to help you feel in control without the stress.

Building a Support Crew

You don’t have to do this alone. Lean on friends or family, or join a group. Our Every Tuesday Night Support Group ($47/year) is a warm spot to connect with women facing the same ups and downs of life after divorce for women.

Thriving in Your 40s and Beyond

For women in their 40s or 50s, life after divorce for women can mean a fresh start. Try something new—like a class or a trip—to shake things up. Rebuilders’ community loves cheering each other on, and you can too.

Your Next Move with Rebuilders

At Rebuilders International, we’re here to help you own life after divorce for women. With support groups, practical tools, and a caring community, we’ve seen women transform this time into something amazing.

Ready to embrace your new chapter? Join our Virtual (Zoom) Classes to connect, or try our Every Tuesday Night Support Group for ongoing support. Let’s build your future together.

Kevin Van Liere

Divorce Coach, CEO of Rebuilders International

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Below you’ll see that the Rebuilders International system really works, why it is unique, and what we do. We will let this information stand for itself! And yes, of course results will vary but with only a few hours a week you can have a life changing experience.

The Rebuilders Background:

40 Years Of Changing People's Lives.

Meet Dr. Bruce Fisher

The founder of the Rebuilders program was Dr. Bruce Fisher (1931-1998). He was born in Iowa but spent most of his adult life in Boulder, Colorado. He was a popular divorce therapist, author, teach and a Clinical Member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. As he worked with clients dealing with divorce he realized that traditional therapy didn’t work efficiently.

He began working with his clients in groups and eventually found that there are 19 “steps” that people must work through to effectively “Rebuild” their lives. From this work he wrote the book “Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends.” We still use this book as a reference in our classes. Since he wrote the book over 30 years ago we have learned a lot and the program has evolved considerably. Now we find that there are more “steps” and that there are some elements that Dr. Fisher wasn’t aware of or misunderstood. However, he still created a powerful foundation for the program that we run today.

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"I’m so thankful to have had the opportunity to have taken this journey with you and the class. It’s been very mind blowing and a real eye opener. It changed my life."

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How our program works...

Head

Your thinking, mindset, beliefs, and values all influence how you respond to the traumatic experience of divorce. We show you how to step outside of the rumination about the past. Learn to step outside of the normal traps that keep people stuck thinking about the past.

Heart

Many people suppress, depress, or repress their feelings. Divorce brings so many “difficult” feelings. We give you tools to work through them, use them, and feel the “good” feelings again -like HAPPINESS, JOY, AND LOVE.

Identity

In marriages people “lose” themselves. When the marriage ends they don’t know who they are as a single person. We help you connect with yourself so that you can be comfortable being alone in your own skin.

The Program Works Regardless of Your Situation!

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