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For people going through a divorce who can't stop replaying what happened, feel alone in it, and are tired of being told to "just move on"
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Whether You Left or Were Left
Still Deciding, Divorcing, or Divorced
⭐️ Typical: From 49th to 84th Percentile in 10 Weeks
⭐️ Every Student We Measured Improved
⭐️ 1 in 3 People Who Didn't do the course Got Worse
Trusted by 12,000+ People to Get Unstuck From Their Divorce
Michael, Blindsided After 17 Years of Marriage
Overall recovery score from 8 to 98 in 10 weeks.
"I lived in hell for five years. If I knew then what I know now, I would have paid 10 times the price. I feel content. The last time I felt this good was when my last kid was born."
Diane, Married 35 Years
Overall recovery score from 24 to 95 in 10 weeks.
"I can't even believe I feel like I do. I was such a mess when we first talked. I didn't know how I was going to do this. But I am so glad I chose you guys rather than a one-on-one. And I don't need my ex anymore."
Jennifer, Was in the Middle of Her Divorce
Social self-worth from 39 to 95.
"I can confidently say that I'm good. I won't say excellent or fantastic, because I am still dealing with divorce things. But the clarity in thinking, the path that I know I want to move forward on, that's what changed."
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Transform Your Life in 10 Weeks
(And Without Reliving Your Divorce Over and Over)
Learn the same 4-stage RIFT Method our graduates use to get unstuck
Work through Thinking, Feelings, Identity, and Relationships, in the order you actually heal.
Find out exactly where you're stuck, and why.
Stop wasting time on coping that only numbs the pain.
Step-by-step weekly classes
A clear topic and a simple practice each week.
Gain control over your thoughts and feelings.
Feel real relief, often within the first few weeks.
Build the next chapter of your life
Know who you are now, not who you were.
Rebuild trust with your kids, family, and friends.
Stop repeating old patterns in your next relationship.
Rebuilders Changes Lives
What are the 4 Stages of the RIFT Recovery Method?
Here's exactly how the RIFT Method helps you work through your divorce in the order you actually heal, so you stop waiting and start rebuilding.
Stage 1
Thinking
(Stop the Questions That Keep You Up at Night)
Your mind keeps asking questions that have no answers. The answer to the question isn't the solution. You'll learn what's underneath the questions, so they finally lose their grip.
Stage 2
Feelings
(Release the Grief, Anger, and Hurt)
Crying every day spills over the sides of the cup, but the cup stays full. You'll learn to let grief go on purpose, and to move anger out instead of managing it forever.
Stage 3
Identity
(Discover Who You Are)
Divorce changes you, and you can't go back. You'll use what you learned in the first two stages to decide who you want to be.
Stage 4
Relationships
(Rebuild Trust and Break Old Patterns)
It's not about dating. It's rebuilding trust with your kids, family, and friends, and building healthy relationships so you don't repeat the past.
...if you've been told to just give it time.
...if you're tired of feeling stuck.
...if you're ready to feel like yourself again.
Join the Phoenix Seminar today.
Next class starts: Sunday October 18th at 3pm ET (noon PT)
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Watch the Divorce Recovery Training Video
How the Phoenix Seminar Works
The Phoenix Seminar is incredibly straightforward.
You'll take our divorce recovery self-test, then join 10 live weekly classes on Zoom. Each class covers one part of the RIFT Method, with simple exercises between classes. At the end, you'll retake the self-test and see exactly how far you've come. It's that simple!
Letting Go
The first step is to release everything that happened. Holding on to the past keeps you stuck: replaying the same questions, carrying the same hurt, waiting for it to fade on its own. The first two stages help you let it go, so the divorce stops running your life.
Stage 1: Thinking
Quiet the questions that keep you up at night
Why did this happen? What could I have done differently? Your mind keeps replaying the same questions, hoping an answer will finally make the pain stop. It won't, because the answer isn't the solution. In this stage, you'll learn what's underneath those questions, so they lose their grip and you can finally think clearly again.
Stage 2: Feeling
Let go of the grief and anger you've been carrying
Crying every day can feel like grieving, but it's more like a cup filled to the brim: it spills over the sides, and the cup stays full. In this stage, you'll learn to empty it on purpose, and to move anger out instead of managing it forever. Many people feel the biggest relief here, and what's left is a sense of peace they haven't felt in a long time.
Moving Forward
Once you've let go, there's room for something new. You can't go back to the way things were, and you don't have to. The last two stages help you build the next chapter: knowing who you are now, and creating healthier relationships with the people who matter most.
Stage 3: Identity
Discover who you are now
"I don't know who I am anymore." If that sounds familiar, you're not alone. Divorce changes you, and you can't go back to who you were before. In this stage, you'll use what you've learned about how you think and feel to decide who you want to be, and start becoming that person.
Stage 4: Relationships
Rebuild trust and stop repeating old patterns
This stage isn't about dating. It's about rebuilding trust with your kids, family, and friends, and understanding the patterns that played out in your marriage. When you know how you're wired, you stop repeating the past, and you build healthier relationships with the people who matter most, including a future partner when you're ready.
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What our graduates say
We asked them to answer these questions for you:
What was going on in your life when you started?
What made you decide to join the program?
What's different for you now?
What would you tell someone who's considering joining?
Denise's Story
10 Weeks changed what 3 1/2 years didn't
Denise felt trapped in her marriage for years. She thought divorce would make things better. Instead, in her words, "I was way worse." For three and a half years, she put off dealing with it. She cried much of the day, didn't want to talk to anyone, and had accepted that she'd be unhappy for the rest of her life. Her kids tried to encourage her, but "there was no encouraging me."
She was skeptical. She didn't want to spend the money, and she dreaded the work. She watched testimonial after testimonial, wondering how these people could go from where they were to completely transformed. Then she put notes up all over her apartment: "Trust the process, Denise."
She did. She read her grief homework out loud to her class without skipping a single painful sentence. The next night, driving home from her shift, she screamed in her car until, as she put it, "it was like demons were coming out." That was her turning point. Her social self-worth went from 10 to 87. The woman who didn't want to talk to anyone ended up on the phone with her classmates for hours every week.
Ten weeks later, she reread her old journal and thought, "There's no way I was like this just 10 weeks ago."
Her advice: "You don't want to spend the money, but you just can't afford not to."
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What You Get
10 Live Weekly Classes on Zoom
The 4-Stage RIFT Method
Live Coaching in Every Class
Proven Exercises Between Classe
Your Divorce Recovery Self-Test, Before and After
Easy Payment Options
Lifetime Access to the Videos, Exercises, and Tools
Plus...
Join 12,000+ People Who've Come Through Rebuilders
Built on 50+ Years of Rebuilding Work
Named the Best Divorce Recovery Program in the United States of 2026
Dr. Bruce Fisher's Work Has Helped 2.5 Million+ People
Typical Student: 49th → 84th Percentile in 10 Weeks
Join 12,000+ people who've found relief and a clear path forward through their divorce
Mary Paige
She left a long marriage in her 60s, and she thought she might be the oldest person ever to take the class. She'd reached the point where, in her words, she'd "rather live in a homeless shelter" than stay. She found Rebuilders by accident online. She had a fair amount of training in this area herself, so she figured she'd know right away whether it was any good. After the first conversation, she knew it would help.
Before class, her therapist asked her to describe the kind of woman she wanted to be, and she couldn't. By the end, she could. She'd learned that what she says, thinks, feels, and does matters, after years of burying it. Her classmates told her that her contributions to the group were invaluable, which amazed her.
Her advice: "Do it. Do it. And let the process help you." She calls it "worth five times what I paid for it, no matter if you wanted the divorce or if you didn't."
Wake up looking forward to your day
Follow a clear process instead of waiting for time to heal
Take control of your thoughts instead of replaying the past
BONUS! The audiobook of 10-Week Divorce Recovery (listen on your morning walk or drive)
Stop guessing and know exactly where you're stuck
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Finally Stop Waiting for Time to Heal
How much time does it actually take?
Each class is 60 to 90 minutes depending on the topic. Each week we will give you homework to do and some learning. You can learn in one or more ways: watch videos, listen to the audiobook, or read the book. Depending on which method you choose can take anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. Then there is homework to do as well. This ranges from about 5 minutes to an hour each week.
Can't I just talk to AI about my divorce?
Use AI for what it's good at. But it gives generic advice, plays it safe, and tells you what you want to hear. Healing happens with people who understand, following a proven process that moves you forward.
Does it work whether I left or I was left?
Both! The four stages are the same. People who left often struggle most with identity; people who were left often carry more grief.
Will the Phoenix Seminar work for me?
No one can promise how fast you'll heal. Your results depend on showing up and doing the work. But every student we measured improved, and the typical student went from the 49th to the 84th percentile in 10 weeks.
What is the RIFT Method?
A four-stage process (Thinking, Feelings, Identity, and Relationships) that helps you work through your divorce in the order you actually heal.
Why a class instead of doing this on my own?
A structured class, with a clear process and people going through the same thing, gets results that are hard to get alone. You get a map, people who understand, and a reason to keep going each week.
How long until I feel better?
It depends on you. Most people feel real relief in the first few weeks, often once they start working on grief and anger. Identity takes the longest; the 10 weeks starts that work rather than finishing it.
Are there hidden costs?
No. The price covers all 10 classes. If you want a printed copy of the book or workbook, you can get it at the wholesale price, including shipping.
Do I need to be divorced already?
No. More than half of the people who join us aren't divorced yet. You can even do it while still living in the same home.
I'm already in therapy. Should I do this too?
Many participants do both. Therapy often helps people understand their pain; the Seminar helps you work through it in a structured way, alongside others. Some people put therapy on hold during the 10 weeks.
Will this help my future relationships?
Yes. Stage four is about building healthy relationships with your kids, family, friends, and eventually a partner, so you don't repeat the same patterns.
What do I need to join?
Just Zoom and the ability to read and write. The printed book and workbook are optional.
Can this help with my kids?
The work you do now shows up in how you parent. One graduate's kids told her, "Mom, you don't seem so heavy anymore."
Do I have to talk in class?
No. You don't need to share anything you're not ready to share.
How do I know this is legitimate?
Rebuilders International has been doing this since 2018, built on more than 50 years of Rebuilding work. We were named the Best Divorce Recovery Program in the United States of 2026, and our work has appeared on major news networks.
What are the guarantee terms?
Come to the first class. If it isn't right for you, let us know before class two and we'll refund you in full. We can't guarantee how fast you'll heal, because that depends on the work you put in.
How long are the classes?
10 live weekly classes, usually 60 to 90 minutes, plus a couple of hours a week of reading, videos, and exercises.
Can I get one-on-one help?
Yes. Our 10-Week Workshop is a small group with more individual attention. https://rebuilders.net/workshop
Or you can do individual, private coaching at: https://rebuilders.net/coaching
Can I really connect with people online?
Yes. Classes are live on Zoom, so you can join from anywhere, and graduates are often surprised how close their group becomes.
I've tried a support group before. Why is this different?
Support groups are wonderful for connection, but many don't have a structured process. The Phoenix Seminar gives you both: people who understand, and a clear path through four stages.
What happens after the 10 weeks?
You keep lifetime access to the course videos, exercises, and tools, and graduates can keep going in our Graduate Program.
50+ years of Rebuilding work
12,000+ people
7,000+ recovery assessments taken
About Kevin Van Liere
Kevin is the founder and CEO of Rebuilders International and the author of 10-Week Divorce Recovery, an Amazon best seller. When his own marriage ended in 2017, he was a single dad running a manufacturing business and leading his local Cub Scouts, and he was barely functioning. He found a Rebuilding class near home, and it changed everything.
He started Rebuilders International in 2018 to bring those programs back together and make them available to anyone, anywhere. An engineer by training, he built the RIFT Method and the way Rebuilders measures recovery.
Last year, he helped more than 1,000 people through their divorce.
He's been divorced twice himself, so he knows this road firsthand.
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If I knew then what I know now, I would have paid 10 times the price.
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Do it. Do it. And let the process help you. It's worth five times what I paid for it.
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If you're ready, it is worth every cent.
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