Join expert guides and a community of people who get it—starting this week.
You've tried the podcasts. You've read the books. You've sat in therapy. And you're still stuck.
The exhaustion of trying to figure this out solo is wearing you down. You don't need more generic advice—you need a proven, guided roadmap, walked alongside people who actually understand what you're surviving.

Next cohort starts
This is not a passive video course. This is a 10-week facilitated container.
We screen heavily for readiness based on commitment, not circumstance.

You're tired of pretending.
You're tired of pretending you're fine when you're falling apart inside.
You're stuck in the loop.
You've been reading books, listening to podcasts, trying to "figure it out"—but you're still stuck.
You need a roadmap, not a vacation.
You don't need a getaway. You need a roadmap, and someone to walk it with you.
You're done doing it alone.
You're ready to do the work, but you don't want to do it alone anymore.
You need help NOW.
Not six months from now, not "when you're ready." Now.
You want real understanding.
You want structure, support, and people who actually understand what you're going through.

You're looking for a magic fix.
This takes work—guided work, but work nonetheless.
You're in active crisis.
If you need immediate stabilization, we can help—but you need 1:1 support first, not a group program.
You can't show up consistently.
Ten weeks, one night a week. If you can't commit to that, this won't work.
You're hoping to get your ex back.
This program is about rebuilding YOU, not the relationship.

"We want people who are ready to do the work.
If that's you, we'll walk every step with you."

You slept through the night. No racing thoughts. No middle-of-the-night panic.

There's a message in your group chat from someone in your cohort. They're struggling this morning, and you know exactly what to say—because you were there three weeks ago.

You get ready for work without that crushing weight in your chest. You're not "over it"—but you're not drowning anymore either.
THE METHOD
A proven 4-stage recovery framework built from over 40 years of divorce recovery experience.
Start from the bottom and work your way UP!


Stage 1
Learn how your thoughts shape your reality and influence your recovery.

Stage 2
Work through grief, anger, hurt, and emotional pain in a healthy way.

Stage 3
Rebuild confidence, self-worth, and reconnect with who you are.

Stage 4
Create healthier relationships with yourself, your family, and others.
Over the next ten weeks, something shifts. Every Tuesday night (or Sunday, or Monday, or Wednesday—you pick) you show up on Zoom with 12 other people who GET IT. Who know what it's like to lose not just a person, but your whole identity.
There's a reason you're still stuck. And once you understand it, everything changes.

Here's what nobody tells you:
You've been trying to logic your way through this. Reading articles. Listening to podcasts. Journaling. Talking to friends who mean well but don't actually understand the mechanics of what is happening to you.
But grief doesn't live in your head. It lives in your body. And until you learn how to move it, it stays stuck.
Most people try to skip straight to "moving on" without doing the actual grief work. That's why you're fine for three weeks, then fall apart again. That's why dating feels impossible. That's why you can't trust yourself.

1. Thinking
The Narrative

2. Feelings
The Somatic Work

3. Identity
The Rebuilding

4. Relationships
The Future
The Workshop gives you this roadmap—and we walk through it with you. We know exactly where you're stuck and exactly how to get you unstuck.
This isn't magic.
It's structured recovery.
And it works.

1 hour per week
Talk about the same issues repeatedly without a structured path
Go home alone to the same triggers
No community, no shared experience
Still guessing what's normal
Average Recovery
2-5 Years
The Proven Path

2 hours per week with expert guides
Follow a proven framework that progresses each week
Supported community who intimately understands
Know exactly where you are and what comes next
Practical tools you use immediately
Average Recovery
Months, not years

Passive waiting
No framework, no tools
Repeat the exact same thought patterns
No community, no support
Isolation makes the trauma worse
Average Recovery
Wake up 2 years later still stuck
Here's why:
You're following a proven roadmap developed over 40 years. Not guesswork. Not theory. A step-by-step path where you know exactly what is coming next.
Hearing someone else say exactly what you've been thinking—and realizing you're not crazy—is healing in a visceral way that individual therapy simply isn't.
You're following a proven roadmap developed over 40 years. Not guesswork. Not theory. A step-by-step path where you know exactly what is coming next.
Hearing someone else say exactly what you've been thinking—and realizing you're not crazy—is healing in a visceral way that individual therapy simply isn't.
Next Cohort Starts: Monday July 13th at 8pm ET (5pm PT)
The 10-Week Workshop is a healing experience unlike anything you've tried before.
You'll join a cohort of 10 people maximum, all navigating divorce recovery, all ready to do the work. Every week, you'll meet on Zoom for 2 hours with an expert divorce coach who knows this roadmap inside and out.

1:00 PM
Mountain Time
5:00 PM
Mountain Time
6:00 PM
Mountain Time
6:00 PM
Mountain Time
Choose the time that fits your life.
Same curriculum. Same expert facilitation. Same proven framework.

Every facilitator is highly trained in the Fisher methodology. They've walked hundreds of people through this exact process.
The moment you enroll, you're in. You get access to Phoenix Live (our weekly support group), course materials, and you can start attending THIS TUESDAY—no waiting.
Between weekly sessions, you're supported by your cohort, the calling circle (peer-to-peer support), and access to Phoenix Live every week.
Life happens. If you miss a session, you can catch up on your own time.
You don't have to leave your job, your kids, or your responsibilities. Two hours a week. That's it.
This isn't a passive course you buy and forget about. It is a living, breathing clinical ecosystem designed to carry you through every single day of the week.
Immediate Access
The moment you enroll, the waiting ends. You instantly receive the tools to begin regulating your nervous system today:
Access to the "Emotional First Aid" course
Your eBook copy of 10-Week Divorce Recovery
The Rebuilders Divorce Recovery Workbook (Printed version)
Access to Phoenix Live (every Tuesday at 6pm MT) in addition to your workshop class
Clear information about your cohort's start date
The 2-Hour Core Anchor
Check-in
How's everyone doing? What came up this week?
Teaching
Your coach guides you through the week's rebuilding block (grief, anger, self-esteem, trust, etc.).
Group Work
Process together, share your reality, and be witnessed by people who understand.
Homework
Practical, grounding exercises to execute in your daily life before next week.
The Continuous Ecosystem
Drop in for additional weekly support, ask questions, and connect with the broader global community.
You're paired with someone from your cohort for weekly peer support calls. A lifeline when loneliness hits.
Post questions, share wins, and get support from your cohort 24/7.
Catch up seamlessly if you missed your class, or re-watch a heavy session to go deeper into the concepts.

10 weekly 2-hour live sessions with your cohort (20 hours)
Lifetime access to Phoenix Live (weekly Tuesday Zoom)
All course materials: 10-Week Book (eBook/audio/print), Rebuilders Workbook, video lessons)
One 1:1 check-in call with a expert coach
Calling Circle: Peer support partnership
Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale: Before/after assessment to measure your transformation
Private cohort group: Stay connected with the people who walked this with you

Directly addressing the elephant in the room: Yes, it works. In fact, for 10-week structural integration, it is superior to in-person workshops. Here are five reasons why:

You might be thinking: "Can I really heal through a screen?"
Here's the truth: For most people, online is actually MORE effective than in-person.
When you learn a coping skill on your own couch, surrounded by your normal triggers, the skill sticks. You aren't in an artificial bubble.
A weekend seminar feels great on Sunday, but fades by Wednesday. Ten weeks of continuous, weekly support actually rewires your nervous system.
Crying? In sweatpants? Exhausted from work? Turn your camera on anyway. There is zero performance pressure. You are safe in your own space.
Life happens. Kids get sick. Work runs late. If you miss an in-person class, it's gone forever. Here, every session is securely recorded for you to catch up.
Because your cohort is connected digitally from Day 1, the transition after week 10 is seamless. The relationships continue without interruption.
Each week builds on the last, taking you progressively deeper into healing and closer to freedom. We don't guess. We follow the math of recovery.
"Why does this still have so much power over me?"
You'll finally see why you're still stuck — and it isn't weakness. Somewhere along the way, your peace got handed to someone else: your ex, the situation, "once things settle down." This week you start taking it back, and feel what it's like to stop waiting on anyone else to make you okay.

You'll walk away knowing:
You can see how to reclaim control over your thoughts and emotions.

You'll walk away knowing:
The pattern isn't who you are. It's what you learned — and what's learned can change.
"I'm scared I'll just repeat the same patterns with someone new."
That fear is valid — but it's not a life sentence. This week you'll trace the patterns that quietly shaped your relationship all the way back to where they began, long before you ever met your ex. Once you can see them, you can choose differently — so the next chapter doesn't rhyme with the last.
"I gave everything to that marriage, and now I feel empty."
This is where you stop carrying the loss and start honoring it. You'll grieve the life you planned, the future you pictured, the person you thought you'd grow old with — not to wallow, but so it stops ambushing you out of nowhere. Naming the loss is how you finally set it down.

You'll walk away knowing:
Letting go isn't giving up. It's making space for what's next.

You'll walk away knowing:
Anger isn't the enemy. It's a messenger — and you can finally hear it.
"I'm exhausted from carrying this much resentment."
The anger you've been swallowing — or erupting with — is draining, and it's trying to tell you something. This week you'll look underneath it, where the real hurt and the unmet needs live, so you can finally put it down instead of drinking the poison and waiting for them to feel it.
"I'm so tired of holding it together and acting like I'm fine."
Performing "okay" takes everything you've got — and it keeps the real you hidden, even from yourself. This week you set down the act you've worn for years, see what it's been quietly costing you, and start getting your own needs met instead of managing everyone else's.

You'll walk away knowing:
You don't have to perform anymore. The real you was always enough.

You'll walk away knowing:
You did the best you could with what you knew at the time.
"I'm so much harder on myself than I'd ever be on anyone else."
Right now the loudest voice in your head is the cruelest one. This week you'll learn to quiet that inner critic and treat yourself with the same kindness you pour into everyone else — not as a one-time pep talk, but as a daily practice that slowly rebuilds how you feel about you.
"I want to believe I can love and be loved again someday."
Before you can trust love with anyone else, it has to start with you. This week you'll discover how you actually feel cared for — and how to give that to yourself, so your happiness stops depending on someone else showing up to provide it. It's the difference between needing love and being full of it.

You'll walk away knowing:
Love starts with you — and that's a love no one can take away.

You'll walk away knowing:
Conflict doesn't have to mean disconnection. It can be the way back.
"Every hard conversation either blows up or shuts down."
Conflict has probably felt like something to survive or avoid. This week you'll learn a simple way to be heard — and to truly hear someone else — in the moments that used to end in walls or fights. It's the skill that turns disagreements into closeness: with your ex, your kids, and whoever comes next.
"I don't trust my own judgment anymore."
This week is about the people in your life — the friendships worth growing, the ones quietly draining you, and the question of when, and whether, you're ready to let someone new in. You'll learn what real closeness actually asks of you, so connection becomes a choice you make from strength instead of a risk you brace against.

You'll walk away knowing:
You're ready when you're strong enough to be hurt again — and you're almost there.

You'll walk away knowing:
You're free. And you're just getting started.
"I'm ready for what's next."
In the final week, everything comes together. You'll look back at how far you've come, measure it, and look forward — not at the life you lost, but at the one you get to build now. No more hiding. No more quiet desperation. Just you, finally living as yourself.
This isn't about positive thinking or willpower.
This is measurable, lasting transformation.

Thinking about your ex constantly
Can't trust your own judgment anymore
Feel like a failure
Watching life pass by while you're frozen
Isolating from friends and family
No idea what to do next
Trying to 'be strong' but falling apart inside
Googling 'how long does divorce grief last' at 2am

Wake up thinking about your day—your plans—your possibilities
Trust yourself again (maybe for the first time)
See the relationship clearly—what was real, what wasn't
Taking action in your life again
Reconnected to yourself and others
Have a roadmap, a community, and tools that work
You don't have to pretend anymore—you actually feel okay
The Result
Real change isn't just about feeling better. It's about becoming stronger, clearer, and more confident in every area of your life.

Release the grip of grief and anger so you can finally stop reliving the past and start living in the present.

Rebuild your ability to trust your own judgment and decisions, knowing you can navigate life's challenges with confidence.

Rediscover who you are beyond your roles as spouse or parent, and step into your authentic self with pride.

Find a community of people who truly understand your journey, creating friendships that continue long after the workshop ends.

Walk away with proven frameworks and exercises you can use immediately in your daily life.

Leave with a clear understanding of where you are in your recovery and exactly what steps come next.

See your progress quantified through the Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale, proving this isn't just feeling better—it's measurable change.
Measured Impact
Up to
80%
Reduction in Grief & Anger
The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale measures your progress across 19 rebuilding blocks. Most participants see massive, quantifiable shifts in just 10 weeks.
This isn't our opinion — it's measured results.
4
Phases
10
Weeks of Transformation
1
Roadmap Forward
Start Immediately · Heal Progressively · Stay Connected

Before Week 1
Part 01 — Immediate Access
The moment you enroll, your transformation begins. You don't wait for your cohort to start—you begin immediately.
Pre-Cohort
You'll receive:
Clear welcome email with your cohort start date
Access to all course materials
Information about your calling circle partner
Invitation to your private cohort group
By the time your first session starts, you won't be walking in cold. You'll already be healing.
The Rebuilders Promise
Part 02 — Lifelong Support
Your healing doesn't end when the 10 weeks do. The support system travels with you.
Continue attending weekly Tuesday Zoom sessions for as long as you need. No expiration. No additional cost.
Stay connected with the specific people who walked this with you. Your cohort becomes chosen family.
For life

When you're ready for the next level:

When you complete the 10 weeks, there's more if you want it:
online
Advanced work on forgiveness, intimacy, communication, and dating.
In-person
Gatherings with the broader Rebuilders community.
Give back
Support newer participants on their healing journey.
live Course
When you're ready to explore relationships again.
You choose your own path.
We're here to support whatever's next.
Expert Coaches Trained in the Fisher Methodology
Every facilitator leading the 10-Week Workshop is a highly trained, certified divorce recovery coach with years of experience guiding people through this exact process.
Certified Mastery
The most researched, time-tested model for divorce recovery in the world.
Holding safe, structured space for nervous systems still in survival mode.
Deep healing and recovery work that helps you move forward with confidence.

Refined Methodology
The Difference
You're not getting a therapist reading from a script.
You're getting someone who has walked hundreds of people through divorce recovery.
You're getting someone who knows what's coming before you do.
You're getting someone who can hold space for your pain while guiding you through it.

Founder & CEO
Founder & CEO, Rebuilders International
Kevin built Rebuilders International after his own divorce recovery journey. As a five-time author and master facilitator, he's dedicated his career to one mission: helping people heal 10x faster than traditional methods.
The 10-Week Workshop is the culmination of 8+ years of refining the Fisher methodology for online delivery—making proven, structured recovery accessible to anyone, anywhere.
8+
Years Refining
5x
Published Author
10x
Faster Healing
In addition to Kevin's leadership, you'll receive support from experienced recovery coaches who help guide participants through every stage of the healing process. Our team is committed to creating a safe, supportive environment where healing, growth, and lasting transformation can take place.
Compassion · Guidance · Growth

Lead Divorce Coach & Lead Course Facilitator
Nick Meima is the Co-Founder of Rebuilders International and has spent more than 20 years helping individuals navigate divorce, grief, and life transitions. With advanced degrees in Psychology, Marriage & Family Counseling, and Gerontology, he combines professional expertise with compassionate guidance.
As a lead facilitator of the Rebuilders Program, Nick has helped thousands of participants find healing, hope, and a path forward after divorce.
20+ Years Experience
Co-Founder
Lead Facilitator

Online Group Facilitator & Divorce Coach
In June of 2018 her 29-year relationship, 25-year marriage, ended abruptly and unexpectedly. She was beside herself with grief, anger and resentment. Within a month, with the Rebuilder’s book in hand and on audio, she started attending Nick Meima’s week 10 Rebuilder’s Workshop online. Those 10 weeks changed her life and opened her eyes to a new possibility.
“The workshop, with its supplemental material, and the book, were my guideposts to building a wonderful life. I felt so strongly about the course I worked with Kevin and Nick to become a facilitator.”
Although her role with Rebuilder’s International is as a coach, facilitator and teacher, she is a licensed mental health professional with an advanced degree and training.
30+ Years as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Rebuilders Graduate
Workshop Facilitator 5+ Years

Divorce & Relationship Coach
A certified Divorce and Transformational Love Coach with over a decade of coaching experience and 23 years as a leader in mind-body wellness. After navigating her own divorce in 2013, she discovered her calling to help others transform their pain into possibility.
Now based in Colorado with her three children, she brings a unique blend of personal insight and professional expertise to guide clients through one of life's most challenging transitions. Her holistic approach integrates emotional healing with practical tools, empowering individuals to rebuild their lives with clarity, confidence, and renewed hope for love.
12+ Years Expert Coach
23 Years Wellness Leadership
Phoenix Live and Immersion Leader
These are real people who did the work. They walked in stuck. They walked out rebuilding.

I came into the workshop completely lost. Ten weeks later, I have a roadmap, a community, and most importantly—I have myself back. The weekly sessions kept me accountable, and knowing I wasn't alone made all the difference.

Workshop Graduate, Spring 2025

I was skeptical about online. But the facilitators created such a safe space that by week 2, I forgot we were on Zoom. The calling circle was a game-changer—having someone to check in with between sessions made me feel supported all week long.

Workshop Graduate, Fall 2025

The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale showed me I dropped 78% in grief and anger in just 10 weeks. I didn't think that was possible. This program gave me my life back.

Workshop Graduate, Winter 2026

These are real people who did the work. They walked in stuck. They walked out rebuilding. You can too.
Find clarity and confidence as you prepare for your journey.
If you don't see your question here, our team is always ready to assist.
10 people maximum
Certified facilitators
Readiness & Format
Everyone feels this way before they start. Here's the truth: you'll fit in because everyone there is going through the same thing you are. The shame you feel? They feel it too. The fear that you'll never be normal again? Everyone has it.
Group work is powerful because you realize you're not alone. Hearing someone else say exactly what you've been thinking is healing in a way individual therapy can't touch.
We've facilitated hundreds of online cohorts. Within 20 minutes of the first session, people forget they're on Zoom. Our facilitators are trained to create deep safety and connection in virtual spaces.
Plus, online has advantages: you can show up in sweatpants, you don't lose time commuting, and if you need to step away for a moment, you can.
All sessions are recorded. Life happens—we get it. If you miss a class, you can watch the recording and stay caught up. We encourag live attendance when possible, but we won't penalize you for being human.
If you're past the initial crisis stage (not currently suicidal, not in immediate danger, basic needs are met), you're ready. Some people start healing work immediately. Others need a few months to stabilize. Trust your gut.
Absolutely not. Many people enter the workshop years after their divorce—still stuck, still carrying grief and anger. The framework works regardless of how long it's been.
You can watch the recording, OR you can drop into a different time slot that week (Sunday 1pm, Sunday 5pm, Monday 6pm, Wednesday 6pm). Same curriculum, so you won't miss anything.
2 hours. We start on time and end on time. You'll need a quiet space where you can be present and participate.
▪ Computer, tablet, or phone with camera and microphone
▪ Quiet, private space (this is emotional work—you need privacy)
▪ Notebook or journal
▪ Your workbook (we'll send it)
We strongly encourage it. Connection happens face-to-face, even through a screen. That said, if you need to turn your camera off occasionally, that's okay.
You'll be paired with another participant from your cohort for weekly peer support calls. It's 15-20 minutes, you take turns, and it's incredibly powerful. You're not alone between sessions.
Schedule
The Work & Content
Good news: this isn't about rehashing your story. This is about rebuilding YOU. Yes, your divorce is the context, but the focus is on your healing, your identity, your future.
No. The Fisher methodology is evidence-based and secular. People of all faiths (and no faith) participate. We respect whatever your spiritual beliefs are.
We'll talk about forgiveness—but not the way you think. Forgiveness isn't about letting them off the hook. It's about freeing yourself from carrying their shit. And we don't rush it. When you're ready, we'll guide you there.
Our facilitators are trained to hold space for all kinds of divorce situations. You're not the first person with a complicated story. You won't be the last. The framework works regardless of the circumstances.
You have options:
▪ Continue with Phoenix Live (lifetime access, free)
▪ Join the Graduate Program ($100/month for advanced work)
▪ Attend graduate conferences (annual in-person gatherings)
▪ Take the Dating with Confidence course (when you're ready
▪ Return to your life (with tools and community in your pocket)
Yes. Your private cohort group stays active as long as you want it. Many cohorts stay connected for years.
You have lifetime access to Phoenix Live, which covers the same material on a rolling basis. If you want to officially retake the 10-week format, contact us—we can usually accommodate that at a reduced rate.
After the Workshop
The Investment
We offer flexible payment options:
▪ No payments for 6 months
▪ Financing as low as $112/month
Consider this: How much is it costing you to stay stuck? The lost productivity at work, the failed relationships, the years of your life watching from the sidelines. The real cost isn't the workshop—it's staying where you are.
You can see our full refund policy here: https://go2.rebuilders.net/refund-policy
Maybe. Some HSA/FSA plans cover coaching or mental health programs. Check with your plan administrator. We can provide a receipt.
We read every email personally and we're happy to help you de
termine whether this workshop is the right fit for your journey.
Email Support
Send us your question—however long or specific. Our care team replies within one business day, personally.
Schedule a Call
Book a quiet 30-minute conversation with our intake team to see if Rebuilders is the right next step for you.
Let's talk about what it costs to stay stuck.
Years of weekly sessions
($150–200/session)
$7,800 – $10,400/yr
Lost productivity at work
(conservative estimate)
$20,000+/yr
Failed relationships, your kids' childhood passing by, the life you're not living.
Priceless
Flagship Program
A structured, expertly facilitated path through the rebuilding blocks—so you stop surviving your divorce and start living again.
Live, expert-led facilitation
Lifetime Phoenix community
Books, workbook & coaching included
Pay in Full
Best Value
or as little as $112/month with financing
No payments for 6 months available
Every element designed to move you from stuck to rebuilt.
10 weeks of live facilitation (2-hour sessions, expert coaches
10-Week Divorce Recovery book (eBook, audiobook, or print—your choice)
Lifetime Phoenix Live access (weekly Tuesday Zoom sessions—forever)
Calling Circle (weekly peer support partnership)
Additional video lessons (bonus content to deepen your work)
Private cohort group (stay connected with your cohort)
Immediate access to Emotional First Aid course
Rebuilders Divorce Recovery Workbook
One 1:1 check-in call with a certified coach
All sessions recorded (never miss a week)
Rebuilders Divorce Recovery Workbook
Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale (before/after assessment)
Pathway to advanced work (Graduate Program, Dating Course, Retreat—all optional)
Enrollment Open
"Don't wait. Your healing starts the moment you enroll."
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No peer community
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$2,497
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Your next chapter begins with a single decision.
Not sure yet? Schedule a free call to talk it through.
A quiet moment of decision. The next chapter only begins when you choose it.

a new
sunrise
10 seats

Smaller groups create deeper safety. Everyone gets seen. Everyone gets heard.
No one gets lost.

Next cohort starts

How many more weeks do you want to
wake up feeling stuck?
How many more months do you want to watch life pass by?
You've already lost enough time.
Don't lose any more.
Spots in the upcoming cohort are claimed in the order they're requested. Reserve yours, or book a quiet call first.

life after rebuilding
If you've read this far, something inside you knows: it's time.
What awaits you
The path forward

You're done being stuck. You're done pretending you're fine. You're done doing this alone.
You're ready to rebuild.
And this time, you don't have to do it by yourself.
Next Cohort Starts
We'll walk every step with you.
— The Rebuilders Team

Questions?
