
Infidelity: Understanding and Moving Past It
What is Infidelity?

Understanding Infidelity
Infidelity is often seen as the cause of marital problems, but it's more accurate to view it as a symptom of underlying issues.
The Nature of Infidelity
Infidelity affects approximately 60% of relationships, with definitions varying from emotional connections to physical acts. The motivations behind cheating can be grouped into eight categories, four related to the primary relationship and four independent of it.
Relationship-Related Motivations
Anger and Revenge
Lack of Love
Commitment Issues
Perceived Neglect
Independent Motivations
Self-Worth and Esteem
Desire for Variety
Increased Libido
Situational Factors
Addressing Infidelity
Steps to Recovery
In this episode, Kevin emphasizes that healing from infidelity requires addressing the core issues within the relationship.
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