Broken Hearts

Infidelity: Understanding and Moving Past It

June 05, 20251 min read

What is Infidelity?

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Understanding Infidelity

Infidelity is often seen as the cause of marital problems, but it's more accurate to view it as a symptom of underlying issues.

The Nature of Infidelity

Infidelity affects approximately 60% of relationships, with definitions varying from emotional connections to physical acts. The motivations behind cheating can be grouped into eight categories, four related to the primary relationship and four independent of it.

  • Relationship-Related Motivations

  1. Anger and Revenge

  2. Lack of Love

  3. Commitment Issues

  4. Perceived Neglect

  • Independent Motivations

  1. Self-Worth and Esteem

  2. Desire for Variety

  3. Increased Libido

  4. Situational Factors

  • Addressing Infidelity

  • Steps to Recovery

In this episode, Kevin emphasizes that healing from infidelity requires addressing the core issues within the relationship.

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Divorce Coach, CEO of Rebuilders International

Kevin Van Liere

Divorce Coach, CEO of Rebuilders International

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