For people affected by divorce
What If You Could Stop Thinking About Your Ex—And Start Living Your Life Again?
Join us at our private oceanfront retreat in Mexico for
5 days of intensive healing work that creates the breakthrough you have been waiting for.
November 5-10, 2026 | Mixto, Mexico
Is This You?
This is for you if...
You wake up every morning and your first thought is still about them. You're sick of it, but you can't stop.
You've been separated or divorced and not in crisis anymore—but you're not moving forward either.
Maybe you've tried therapy. You've read the books. You've given it time. Nothing's working the way everyone said it would.
You're smart, but this one thing you can't fix. And you wish you knew HOW to fix it.
You're done watching life happen to other people while yours feels frozen. You're ready to do something different.
You're willing to get vulnerable with strangers who understand—because pretending you're fine isn't working anymore.
READINESS
This Isn't For You If...
You just separated and you're still in crisis, and that's okay—but you need stabilization first, not intensive work.
You're looking for a vacation or a spa escape. This is healing work done in a retreat environment.
You're not ready to do emotional work in a group setting. Some people aren't.
You're hoping to figure out how to get your ex back. This retreat is about rebuilding you, not the relationship.
"We want people who are ready. If you're not, that's okay."
Imagine Waking Up Five Days From Now...
You open your eyes and realize: you didn't dream about them last night.
Your first thought isn't about what they're doing or who they're with. It's about the sound of the waves outside your window.
You walk barefoot to the beach before breakfast. The sand is cool under your feet. The water is that impossible turquoise-green you only see in Mexico. And for the first time in months—maybe years—you feel something unexpected:
Hope.
Over the next five days, something shifts. You sit in circle with 14 other people who get it. Who know what it's like to lose not just a person, but your whole identity. Your future. Your sense of who you are.
You don't have to explain yourself. You don't have to be strong. You can finally just... feel.
By day three, you're laughing—real laughter, the kind that comes from your belly. By day five, you realize you've gone hours without thinking about them.
On your last morning, you watch the sunrise over the Pacific with people who were strangers five days ago but feel like chosen family now. And you know: you're not the same person who arrived here.
You're rebuilding. And this time, you're building something better.
Why You're Still Stuck
(And It's Not Your Fault)
There's a reason you are still stuck. And once you understand it, everything changes.
Here's what nobody tells you about divorce recovery:
"You can't think your way out of your feelings."
Most approaches are talk-based. You process the same stories, week after week, for years. But talking about grief doesn't move grief. Talking about anger doesn't release anger.
And "giving it time"? That just means you're stuck for longer.
Divorce recovery happens in a specific sequence. There are layers: relationships, identity, feelings, and thinking. Skip a layer, and you stay stuck. Try to rush it, and you fall back.
Most people try to skip straight to "moving on" without doing the actual grief work. That's why you're fine for three months, then fall apart again. That's why dating feels impossible. That's why you can't trust yourself.
The Phoenix Immersion gives you the roadmap.
We've worked with over helped thousands of people through this process. We know exactly where you're stuck and exactly how to get you unstuck. Not with theory—with proven, structured healing work that creates measurable change.
Pre & Post Assessment
You'll take the Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale before and after the retreat, measuring progress across 19 rebuilding blocks.
80% Reduction
In measurable grief and anger
Proven Framework
40+ Years Proven - This framework has guided over 300,000 people through divorce recovery since 1981.
This isn't magic. It's structured recovery. And it works.
Why 5 Days Changes
What 5 Years Couldn't
Traditional
Therapy
1 hour per week
Talk about the same issues repeatedly
Go home to the same triggers
No breakthroughs, just processing
Still thinking about ex daily
Average recovery: 2-5 years
"Just Give
It Time"
Passive waiting
No framework, no tools
Repeat the same patterns
No community, no support
Isolation makes it worse
Wake up 2 years later still stuck
Phoenix
Immersion
5 days of immersive healing work
Proven framework guides the process
Remove yourself from all triggers
Community of people who understand
Measurable transformation
Wake up thinking about your future, not your past
Average recovery: months, not years
An intensive immersion creates breakthroughs that weekly sessions can't. Here's why:
Immersion
You can't heal grief in 50-minute increments. You need space and time to go deep.
Safety.
You're away from every trigger. No running into your ex. No sleeping in the bed you shared. No reminders everywhere you look.
Community.
Hearing someone else say exactly what you've been thinking—and realizing you're not alone—is healing in a way individual therapy isn't.
Structure.
You're following a proven process developed over 40 years of research. Not guesswork. Not theory. A roadmap.
Five Days That Change
Everything
November 5-10, 2026 • Mixto, Mexico
The Phoenix Immersion is a healing experience unlike anything you've tried before.
You'll arrive on a Thursday afternoon, boat across the water to Mixto—a private oceanfront retreat center tucked into a secluded beach South of Puerta Vallarta. The entire property is ours. Just 15 of us, the ocean, and five days to do the work you couldn't do at home.
The Journey Begins
Your transformation starts the moment you step onto the panga boat. Leaving the mainland behind, you navigate across the sparkling Bay of Banderas. With every mile, the noise of daily life fades, replaced by the rhythm of the waves and the expanse of the horizon.
Arriving at our secluded jungle cove, you are greeted not just by the stunning landscape, but by a carefully curated environment designed entirely for your emotional safety and deep healing.
What Makes This Different
You're held by two coaches:
Kevin and Kathryn guide every session—male and female perspectives, different coaching styles, you get both
Community starts before you arrive.
Three months before the retreat, we begin building connection—you'll meet your cohort, start the pre-work, and walk in knowing you're not alone.
You're cared for.
Meals are made. Your room is cleaned. All you do is show up and heal.
The whole place is ours.
No other guests. No distractions. Complete privacy and safety.
Co-ed healing.
Men and women together creates a safe container to understand the dynamic that broke you, with coaches who model healthy relationship.
What Your Days Look Like
Morning
Sunrise yoga and breathwork on the beach (all levels welcome—this is about moving energy, not performance)
Breakfast together—real food, made fresh, all dietary needs covered
Morning session: grief work, anger release, identity rebuilding (we go deep, but you're held by the group)
Midday
Lunch overlooking the ocean
Free time: nap, beach, journal, connect with others, just be;
Optional spa services
Afternoon
Afternoon session: continue the work, process in pairs or small groups, integrate what's shifting
Beach time, sunset, dinner together
Evening
Evening circle: share, reflect, be witnessed
Optional: bonfire, quiet contemplation, early to bed
Why This Place.
Why Mexico.
Why Now.
You need to get away. Not just from your house—from your whole life.
If you stay home, you'll sleep in the same bed. Drive the same routes. See the same triggers. You need physical distance to create emotional distance.
Quimixto
The region Isn't Cabo. It's not Cancun. It's a quiet fishing village on Mexico's Pacific coast where locals still outnumber tourists. Where you can walk the beach at sunrise and not see another soul.
Mixto
is a private retreat center—accessible only by boat. Nestled between the jungle and the ocean. No cars. No noise. No distractions.
The property sleeps 18, and we're capping the retreat at 15. The entire place is ours. Shared spaces for connection, private spaces for solitude. Ocean on one side, jungle on the other. A palapa for group sessions. Hammocks for afternoon rest. Beach for early morning walks.
This is the container. Safe, beautiful, completely removed from your regular life. When you're here, you can finally let your guard down.
"Most people come alone. By day two, you'll feel like you've known these people forever. By day five, they'll feel like chosen family."
"Important: To reach the retreat center, you'll need to wade through knee-deep water from the boat to the beach. Please ensure you're physically comfortable with this. If you have mobility concerns, contact us before booking."
Welcome to Mixto Retreat
Your Sanctuary: Mixto Retreat
Mixto Retreat, nestled in the serene village of Quimixto, Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, offers a delicate fusion of luxury and nature. Located just 45 minutes from Puerto Vallarta International Airport, this beachfront sanctuary is enveloped by the lush Mexican jungle and the pristine Pacific Ocean. It embodies an intimate, cozy atmosphere, often described as a tropical oasis that beautifully marries high-end boutique amenities with organic, nature-inspired design and warm wellness hospitality.
Spaces to Gather & Grow
At Mixto Villa, you'll discover a variety of communal areas designed for both connection and quiet reflection. The beachfront terrace, bar and restaurant dining patio, open-air yoga shala, and poolside areas provide ample space for gathering.
Picture yourself practicing yoga in an open-air shala uniquely positioned between the ocean and jungle, or relaxing by the infinity pool with breathtaking ocean views. The seamless flow between ocean, jungle, pool, and dining terrace ensures that every moment—whether in practice, in conversation, or in stillness—is steeped in natural beauty.
Immerse
Activities & Offerings
Your time at Mixto Retreat promises to be filled with unique experiences. You will have private beach access and opportunities to partake in cacao ceremonies, ice baths, and jungle hikes. You might find yourself exploring temazcal rituals, enjoying bonfires, or engaging in snorkeling, surfing, and kayaking.
The venue also offers wellness-focused amenities such as a spa with therapeutic treatments, yoga workshops, meditation classes, and aerial yoga hammocks. You'll have everything you need for a rejuvenating experience.
Rest Deeply
Eco-Luxury Accommodations
The accommodations at Mixto Retreat are earthy, sophisticated, and boutique in style, offering a private beach and jungle oasis feel.
Each room boasts ocean views, open-air terraces or oceanfront decks, and luxury amenities. You will enjoy eco-friendly surroundings with air conditioning, artisanal mosquito nets, and memory foam mattresses.
"Mixto Retreat offers a transformational experience, leaving guests feeling deeply restored and reconnected."
You'll depart nourished in body and soul, carried by the beauty and tranquility of this unique sanctuary.
Mixto stands as a rare gem, a car-free retreat accessible by boat, offering an unparalleled sense of sanctuary and escape from the ordinary world.
Nourishment
For Body & Soul
Welcome to Mixto, where every meal is a celebration of nourishment and joy. Picture yourself dining in a cozy lodge, where the atmosphere is relaxed and casual, encouraging laughter and connection over delicious plates.
Nestled in a region famed for its fresh, farm-to-table produce and unique cultural traditions, our culinary offerings are a true reflection of the local food culture. You will savor dishes inspired by local cuisine, enhanced with mountain herbs and organic vegetables that make each meal memorable.
Our friendly staff will make you feel right at home, ensuring your dining experience is as delightful as the meals themselves.
A Daily Culinary Journey
From dawn to dusk, experience a rhythm of nourishing meals designed to support your renewal.
Mornings
Start your mornings with a delightful breakfast spread featuring fresh fruits, eggs, and pastries. Don't miss our signature local breakfast items paired with aromatic coffee, herbal teas, and fresh juices.
Mid-day
Lunch will be a light and fresh affair, with options like vibrant salads and grilled fish. Utilizing fresh, local ingredients from the surrounding region to keep your body energized for the afternoon's inner work.
Evenings
As the sun sets, dinner will be a comforting experience with standout dishes that celebrate the flavors of the region. Share stories from the day as you pass plates and break bread together.
Sweet Treats & Hydration
For those with a sweet tooth, our local sweets and homemade cakes will be a treat, while snacks are available throughout the day. Enjoy a range of drinks from fresh fruit juices to herbal teas and local wines.
Mindful Inclusivity
Your well-being is our priority. Our culinary team is highly skilled at adapting our menus to accommodate all dietary paths with creativity and care.
We Care For Your Needs
We cater to various dietary needs, including vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, dairy-free, and nut-free, with special dishes prepared upon advance communication.
"At Mixto, eating is an act of celebration, nourishing both body and soul. Join us for a culinary journey that is sure to fuel your well-being and delight your senses."
Your 5-Day
Transformation
Each day builds on the last, taking you deeper into healing and closer to freedom.
Day 1: Thursday
Arrival & Connection
Today, you'll arrive and settle into the welcoming retreat space, feeling a sense of belonging as you meet the group. This initial gathering will invite you to share a meal, fostering comfort and connection as you get to know each other.
As you express your intentions, you'll begin to feel oriented and ready to explore the transformational journey that lies ahead. This day will gently guide you into a community where you'll find support and understanding, laying the foundation for the days to come as you embark on this path of personal growth and renewal.
Day 2: Friday
Grief Work
On Day 2, you'll gather with the group to explore and release the grief of losing a future with your ex. This day will encourage you to identify and allow your emotions, creating space for healing and empowerment.
As you process these feelings, you'll lessen their emotional impact, finding hope and a new reality emerging. This experience will nurture your strength, offering a deeper connection to the retreat's theme of transformation. You'll leave this day with a lighter heart, ready to embrace the possibilities that await.
Day 3: Saturday
Anger Transformation
The morning will begin with a focus on transforming anger, helping you recognize it as a powerful life force. You'll explore how harboring anger towards someone is like drinking poison, and you'll learn to reclaim your energy.
Through guided activities, you'll empower yourself to direct this energy towards creating your new life rather than wasting it on past hurts. This day will inspire you to harness your inner strength, propelling you forward with clarity and purpose as you continue your journey of transformation.
Day 4: Sunday
Self-Esteem & Self-Love
Today, you'll delve into self-esteem, self-compassion, and self-kindness, exploring how you perceive your value in the world. You'll be guided to treat yourself with the love and compassion you may have never received as a child or in past relationships.
Through reflective practices, you'll learn to celebrate the gift that you are, nurturing your self-worth from within. This day will be a powerful reminder that true esteem comes from self-acknowledgment, and you'll leave with a renewed sense of self-love, ready to embrace your authentic self.
Day 5: Monday
Love & Forgiveness
The morning will begin with a focus on transforming anger, helping you recognize it as a powerful life force. You'll explore how harboring anger towards someone is like drinking poison, and you'll learn to reclaim your energy.
Through guided activities, you'll empower yourself to direct this energy towards creating your new life rather than wasting it on past hurts. This day will inspire you to harness your inner strength, propelling you forward with clarity and purpose as you continue your journey of transformation.
Day 6: Tuesday
Integration & Departure
As the retreat draws to a close, you'll spend the day reflecting on your journey and the transformation you've experienced. This final gathering will offer a moment of closure, allowing you to wrap up your thoughts and emotions.
You'll take home the insights and growth you've gained, ready to integrate them into your daily life. With a plan for your next steps, you'll depart with a sense of fulfillment and readiness to continue your path of personal growth, carrying the retreat's supportive energy with you into the future.
Take the Next Step
Your Journey Begins Here
What Actually Changes
This isn't about positive thinking or willpower.
This is measurable, lasting transformation.
Before The Retreat
The weight of staying stuck
Thinking about your ex often
Can't trust your own judgment anymore
Feel like a failure
Watching life pass by while you're stuck
Isolating from friends and family
No idea how to move forward
Trying to "be strong" but falling apart inside
After The Retreat
Stepping into your future
Wake up thinking about your day - your future - your possibilities
Trust yourself again (maybe for the first time ever)
See the relationship clearly - what was real, what wasn't
Taking action in your life again
Reconnected to yourself and others
Have a roadmap and a community
You don't have to pretend anymore - you actually feel okay.
The Result
What You'll Gain
The Phoenix Immersion isn't just about finding peace for a weekend. It's about fundamentally rebuilding your emotional foundation so you can return to your life stronger, clearer, and ready for what's next.
Emotional Freedom
Release the grip of grief and anger so you can finally stop reliving the past and start living in the present.
Self-Trust Restored
Rebuild your ability to trust your own judgment and decisions, knowing you can navigate life's challenges with confidence.
A Clear Identity
Rediscover who you are beyond your roles as spouse or parent, and step into your authentic self with pride.
Genuine Connection
Find a community of people who truly understand your journey, creating friendships that continue long after the retreat ends.
Practical Tools
Walk away with proven frameworks and exercises you can use immediately to continue your healing at home.
The Journey
A Roadmap Forward
Leave with a clear understanding of where you are in your recovery and exactly what steps come next.
Measured Transformation
See your progress quantified through the Divorce Recovery Scorecard, proving this isn't just feeling better—it's measurable change.
80%
Reduction in Grief & Anger
The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale measures your progress across the 4 major phases of recovery. Most participants see massive, quantifiable shifts.
This isn't our opinion—it's measured results.
Beyond the Retreat
Your Transformation Starts Early
And Continues Long After
Build Connection Before You Arrive
Three months before the retreat, your transformation begins. You'll join our Video Community where you can share thoughts, questions, and connect with your cohort anytime that fits in your schedule.
3 Months Out
Your Thoughts Workshop
Understanding the invisible mechanics of why you feel stuck.
2 Months Out
Your Behaviors Workshop
Recognizing the subconscious patterns that keep you trapped.
1 Month Out
Your Persona Workshop
Discovering who you really are beneath the roles you've played.
"By the time you arrive at Mixto, you won't be walking in alone. You'll already know your cohort."
Ongoing Support
After You Leave
Your healing doesn't end when the retreat does. The safety net we build in Mexico travels home with you.
Phoenix Live Membership
Weekly Zoom meetings to continue your journey and maintain your momentum.
Private Retreat Group
Stay deeply connected with your specific retreat cohort. The people who witnessed your breakthrough remain in your corner.
Continued Access to Coaches
We don't disappear after you leave. Kevin and Kathryn remain accessible to help you navigate integration back into normal life.
Pathway to Advanced Work
Optional deep-dive programs on forgiveness, trust, communication, intimacy, and dating available when you're ready for the next level.
Take the Next Step
Your Journey Begins Here
Who's Leading This Journey
Guided by experience, rooted in empathy. Meet the facilitators dedicated to your renewal.
Founder & Expert Divorce Coach
I Built This Because I Lived It
Hi, I'm Kevin Van Liere.
My journey began amidst the towering peaks of Colorado, where a love for nature and the outdoors was born in me. Yet, it was the ocean that later revealed a depth within me I never knew existed. Growing up in Lakewood, CO, I spent countless weekends at my family's mountain cabin, a place that nurtured my spirit and connection to the earth.
A pivotal moment from my childhood shaped the path I would later walk. At just five years old, I realized that my playful antics, meant to bring joy, were instead met with tension. It was then I concluded that to be loved, I needed to be perfect—a belief that shadowed my life for years.
My turning point came during a tumultuous second marriage, where I acknowledged that the cycle of unfulfilling relationships was a reflection of my own inner struggles. It was through the Rebuilders program that I discovered the profound power of grief work and transformation. This revelation became my guiding light—realizing that healing doesn't have to take years, and that I could break free from the binds of perfectionism.
Today, as the CEO and founder of Rebuilders International and a five-time author, I co-facilitate the Phoenix Immersion retreat at Mixto, Mexico. Alongside Kathryn Beachy, we offer a transformative five-day experience designed to accelerate divorce recovery. My mission is to equip individuals with actionable tools for healing, regardless of their circumstances.
The oceanfront setting of our retreat provides the perfect backdrop for deep, transformative work. Away from life's distractions, participants can fully immerse themselves in the process. I bring a logical, structured approach to our work, complemented by Kathryn's intuitive heart. Together, we guide participants through a journey of letting go, fostering peace and readiness for their next life chapter.
If you're ready to let go of the life you planned and embrace the life waiting for you, I invite you to join us for the most transformative experience of your life. I've lived this transformation, and I'm here to guide you through yours.
Co-Facilitator & Expert Divorce Coach
Choosing Myself, Choosing You
Growing up amidst the majestic mountains of Colorado, I, Kathryn Beachy, found solace and inspiration in nature. Yet, despite my love for the outdoors and the grounding force it provided, I spent much of my early life feeling like I wasn't enough. My sensitive nature and open heart often left me questioning my worthiness and uniqueness. These feelings followed me into adulthood, shaping my journey in unexpected ways.
The pivotal moment in my life came with the end of my marriage—a devastating experience that turned my world upside down. In the aftermath of my divorce, I realized I had been living for everyone else, striving to be the perfect wife and mother. This life-altering event forced me to confront my deepest fears and desires, leading me to a profound revelation: I could create an incredible life on my terms. I discovered a strength within me I never knew existed, allowing me to become a more authentic and interesting version of myself and the mother I always aspired to be.
For the past decade, I have dedicated myself to guiding others through similar transformations. As a certified divorce and relationship coach, I've had the privilege of serving hundreds of individuals and couples, helping them rebuild and thrive after the end of a relationship. My work is grounded in a deep understanding of trauma-informed, somatic practices. Through yoga, breathwork, Internal Family Systems (IFS), meditation, and visualization, I help people remember the love they truly are, their inherent worthiness, and how to feel fully alive in their bodies and relationships.
One of my first solo international journeys brought me to a magical beachfront location, a place brimming with nourishing flavors, vibrant colors, and warm-hearted people. This private and nurturing environment now serves as the perfect backdrop for my retreats, offering participants a chance to be cared for and nurtured amidst beauty and tranquility.
I warmly invite you to join me in this transformative journey. Are you ready to love yourself enough to choose YOU? Together, we will explore the tools and resources needed to release the past and step into your new post-divorce reality. You will leave feeling invited, relaxed, and empowered, ready to embrace the incredible life that awaits you. You won't regret it.
"You'll have both of us guiding you through the week. Male and female perspectives. Different coaching styles. Different life experiences. You get the full picture."
In Their Own Words
The Reality of Rebuilding
These are real people who did the work. They walked in stuck. They walked out rebuilding.
"It was life-changing—safe, deep, and healing. I've never felt this connected to a group of people before. The team was so in sync—it felt like magic. Everything was beautifully organized and deeply supportive."
Susan
Retreat Participant
"The sense of connection and openness was unlike anything I've experienced. Kevin, Kathryn, and the entire team created a container where I could finally let my guard down. The deep conversations and gentle facilitation helped me process emotions I'd been carrying for years."
David
Retreat Participant
"Kathryn's approach to the gentleness and quiet voices inside changed me profoundly. I finally listened. I found myself. And then Kevin gave me a perspective and helped me lock in on what Kathryn had taught in a different way. It was absolutely life changing. I see myself and the world differently. I move with an ease I have always wanted. Best thing I've ever done for myself."
Shawna
Retreat Participant
These are real people who did the work. They walked in stuck. They walked out rebuilding. You can too.
Phoenix Immersion FAQ
Everything You're Wondering
Find clarity and confidence as you prepare for your journey. If you don't see your question here, our team is always ready to assist.
Readiness & Group Work
I'm not sure I'm ready for group work. What if I don't fit in?
Everyone feels this way before they arrive. Here's the truth: you'll fit in because everyone there is going through the same thing you are. The shame you feel? They feel it too. The fear that you'll never be normal again? Everyone has it. By day two, you'll wonder why you were worried.
Group work is powerful because you realize you're not alone. Hearing someone else say exactly what you've been thinking is healing in a way individual therapy can't touch.
What if I'm the only one who's nervous?
You won't be. Everyone shows up nervous. By the end of day one, you'll feel like you've known these people for years.
I've been separated less than 3 months. Can I still come?
Yes, this retreat is also for people who are recently separated or divorced. We welcome anyone ready to do the work, whether you're just beginning your journey or further along in your recovery.
Is this just for women? Just for men? Co-ed?
The retreat is co-ed. Men and women heal differently, and having both perspectives in the room is incredibly powerful. Your coaches are also male and female (Kevin and Kathryn)—you get both sides.
Sleeping arrangements are NOT co-ed. Men share one room, women share another.
What if I don't want to do yoga?
What if I don't want to do yoga?
Yoga isn't about being flexible or spiritual. It's about moving stuck energy in your body. Grief and anger live in your body, not just your mind.
All levels are welcome. Including "I've never done this and I'm not bendy." Kathryn will guide you safely.
Will this work if my ex has already moved on?
Yes. This work isn't about your ex. It's about you.
Whether they've moved on or not doesn't change the work you need to do. You're not rebuilding the relationship—you're rebuilding yourself.
Can I bring my kids/partner?
No. This is intensive healing work that requires full focus and presence. Children and partners would change the dynamic of the retreat space. This time is for you.
Logistics & Travel
Where do I fly into?
Puerto Vallarta International Airport (PVR). The airport is approximately 45 minutes from where you'll catch the boat to Mixto.
Is there transportation from the airport to the retreat venue?
Yes. The retreat center will arrange a shuttle to the boat departure point once you provide your flight schedule. We'll also help coordinate ride-shares with other participants if you'd like to travel together.
I need a roommate – how do I arrange that?
We will coordinate roommates for you. Just let us know during registration that you need a roommate match, and we'll pair you with another participant of the same gender.
Can you accommodate dietary restrictions?
Yes. We can accommodate vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, dairy-free, and other dietary needs. Just let us know your requirements when you register, and we'll make sure you're taken care of.
What is the weather like?
November is beautiful in this region. Expect warm, comfortable weather perfect for beach walks, yoga, and outdoor activities. The rainy season has typically ended by November, so you'll enjoy mostly sunny days.
What do I pack?
Pack light, comfortable clothes suitable for warm weather Include:
• Comfortable clothing for yoga and movement
• Beach/swim attire
• Light layers for evening
• Comfortable walking shoes or sandals
• Sunscreen and hat
• Journal (if you prefer your own)
• Any personal items you need
Remember: this is a casual, comfortable environment. No need for fancy clothes.
The Investment
What if I can't afford it?
We understand that this is a significant investment. That's why we offer payment options to make it easier:
• No payments for 6 months
• Flexible financing available (as little as $200 per month)
Consider this: How much is it costing you to stay stuck? The lost focus at work, the failed relationships, the years of your life watching from the sidelines. The real cost isn't the retreat—it's staying where you are.
What's your cancellation policy?
We understand that plans can change. Here's our policy:
• 50% of your payment is non-refundable at the time of booking
• 90 days or less before the retreat: 100% non-refundable
We highly recommend purchasing travel insurance to protect your investment.
Why This Place?
The Geography
of Healing
You cannot heal in the exact same physical environment where you broke. Your nervous system is constantly flooded by microscopic environmental triggers—the roads you drove together, the restaurants you ate at, the house you shared.
By physically extracting yourself to a private, boat-access-only sanctuary south of Puerto Vallarta, you literally starve your brain of trauma cues. The physical distance creates the mandatory space required for emotional distance.
Mixto Retreat Center, South of Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
Fly into PVR • 45 Minute Transfer • Boat Access Only
The Investment
In Your Future
A profound shift requires a dedicated space. Review our transparent investment
structure below and secure your path to clarity.
Let's talk about what it costs to stay stuck.
Therapy
Years of weekly sessions ($150-200/session)
$7,800 - $10,400 /yr
Productivity
Lost productivity at work (conservative)
$20,000+ /yr
Life & Connection
Failed relationships, kids' childhood passing by, the life you're not living.
Priceless
The Core Experience
Phoenix Immersion Retreat
November 5-10, 2026
Mixto, Mexico
Pay in Full (Best Value)
$3,497
Pay within 6 months
or financing for as little as $200/month
What You Get
6 days/5 nights at Mixto (private oceanfront retreat center)
All meals(all dietary needs covered)
Daily yoga + breathwork (optional)
Intensive healing curriculum (grief, anger, self-esteem, love)
Pre-retreat workshops (3 months of prep work)
Video Based community (daily support starting 3 months out)
Phoenix Live membership (weekly Zoom)
Divorce Recovery Scorecard (before/after assessment)
All materials (books, workbooks, journals)
Post-retreat support (Private Retreat Group, coach access)
"Only 15 spots available. 8 already reserved."
The Alternative
Traditional therapy takes time. The Intensive condenses months of breakthrough work into 5 days.
40 Weekly Sessions ($175/ea)
$7,000
Phoenix Intensive
$3,497
Optional Upgrade
VIP Package
+$1,147
Receive personalized, one-on-one support before, during, and after your retreat:
6 Private Coaching Sessions with Kevin and Kathryn (use before, during, or after)
Customized Recovery Plan tailored specifically to your situation and goals
7-Day Email Support — Get answers any day of the week throughout your journey
What's NOT Included:
Flights to Puerto Vallarta (we coordinate airport ride-shares)
Alcohol (available for purchase but not included)
Spa treatments (available locally if you want them, but not included)
What's Included
5 nights at Mixto
Private oceanfront retreat center, entire property to ourselves, shared rooms (not co-ed sleeping).
All meals
Breakfast, lunch, dinner made fresh daily. Vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free handled.
Daily yoga + breathwork
Morning sessions to move stuck energy (all levels).
Intensive healing curriculum
Grief work, anger release, self-esteem, love/forgiveness.
Pre-retreat preparation
3 months of workshops (Victim Consciousness, Maladaptive Behaviors, Masks).
Marco Polo group
Private video messaging community (up to 30 min/day support) starting 3 months before retreat
Phoenix Live membership
Weekly Zoom support group, ongoing community (plus free YouTube access)
All retreat materials
Workbooks, journals, everything you need
Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale
Before and after assessment so you can measure your transformation
Post-retreat support
Private group, continued access to Kevin and Kathryn, pathway to advanced work (peace/forgiveness, trust, communication, intimacy, dating—optional upsells)
Only 15 People.
That's It.
We keep these retreats intentionally small.
Smaller groups create deeper safety. Everyone gets seen. Everyone gets heard.
No one gets lost in the crowd.
We're capping this retreat at 15 people—and 8 spots are already reserved.
If you're reading this and thinking "maybe next time"—I want to ask you something:
How many more mornings do you want to wake up thinking about your ex?
How many more months do you want to watch life pass by?
You've already lost enough time.
Don't lose any more.
You're Not The Same Person Who
Started Reading This Page.
If you've read this far, something inside you knows: it's time.
You're done being stuck. You're done waking up thinking about your ex. You're done watching other people live while yours feels frozen.
You're ready to rebuild.
And this time, you're building something better.
Five days. Fifteen people. One private retreat center on the Pacific coast of Mexico.
The ocean. The work. The breakthrough you've been waiting for.
I'll see you in Mixto Retreat Center.
— Kevin & Kathryn
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