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I like being the person I am
I can communicate with my ex or Soon-to-be-ex in a calm and rational manner
There are many things about my personality I would like to change
I feel like I am an attractive person
There are many things about my body I would like to change
I am relating and interacting in many new ways with people since my separation
Joining a singles group would make me feel I was a loser like them
I feel like unloading my feelings of anger and hurt upon my former love partner
I hope my former love partner is feeling as much or more emotional pain than I am
I am unable to control my emotions
I am afraid to trust people who might become love partners
I either have no appetite or eat continuously which is unusual for me
I have given up on my former love partner and getting back together
I feel very frightened inside
It is important that my family, friends, and associates be on my side rather than on my former love partner's side
I feel uncomfortable even thinking about dating
I have noticed my body weight is changing a great deal
I avoid people even though I want and need friends
I sigh a lot
I believe it is best for all concerned to have our love relationship end
I feel adequate as a fe/male love partner
Life is somehow passing me by
I am afraid of becoming emotionally close to another love partner
Even on the days when I am feeling good, I may suddenly become sad and start crying
I can't believe our love relationship is ending
I become upset when I think about my love partner dating someone
People want to have a love relationship with me because I feel like a lovable person
I feel comfortable going to social events even though I am single
I understand the reasons why our love relationship did not work out
I need to improve my feelings of self-worth about being a wo/man
What is your gender?
>What do you do during normal work hours?
> Where are you in the divorce process?
There are a lot of different types of income and a lot of expenses. When you look at your bank account, in general, is there more money in it each month or less? Your answer to this will help us best help you address one of the most critical impacts of divorce.
Two people might have the same amount of debt but perceive it very differently. What is your perception of your debt situation?
401ks, investing in stocks, investing in a house, and so many other things help your money work for you so that you don't have to. In divorce, this may be something you lose or gets reduced significantly.
Life happens, and then a surprise bill hits. Can you absorb it?
>Do you have kids?
As the conflict in a divorce rises it has a higher impact on children.
Skip this question if you don't have children
Select "Not Applicable" if you don't have children.Independent parenting is typically in high-conflict divorces in which the way in which children are raised is very different. Each parent makes their own choices, rules, routines, etc.Parallel parenting means that each parent has differences in choices, rules, and routines but they are similar and each parent is aware of the situation at the other parents house.Collaborative parenting means that the parenting is identical and both parents work hard to be consistent and cooperative with each other.
It might be exercise, relaxation, etc. Whatever works for you
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