Starts Jan 11, 2026. Limited to 20 seats.
Starts Jan 11, 2026. Limited to 20 seats.

Limited to 20 participants


You're not alone. After divorce, the dating landscape can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even terrifying. Old patterns whisper doubts. Your nervous system screams "danger!" at the thought of vulnerability. And somewhere beneath it all, you wonder: Can I really trust myself to choose differently this time?


You're not alone. After divorce, the dating landscape can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even terrifying.Old patterns whisper doubts. Your nervous system screams "danger!" at the thought of vulnerability. And somewhere beneath it all, you wonder: Can I really trust myself to choose differently this time?

This isn't another generic dating course. This is a transformational journey that addresses both the inner work (your nervous system, attachment patterns, and somatic healing) and the outer strategy (how to date intentionally, choose wisely, and show up with confidence).
This isn't another generic dating course. This is a transformational journey that addresses both the inner work (your nervous system, attachment patterns, and somatic healing) and the outer strategy (how to date intentionally, choose wisely, and show up with confidence).
This isn't another generic dating course. This is a transformational journey that addresses both the inner work (your nervous system, attachment patterns, and somatic healing) and the outer strategy (how to date intentionally, choose wisely, and show up with confidence).
This isn't another generic dating course. This is a transformational journey that addresses both the inner work (your nervous system, attachment patterns, and somatic healing) and the outer strategy (how to date intentionally, choose wisely, and show up with confidence).


6 live group coaching sessions with teaching, coaching, and Q&A
Comprehensive workbook with exercises, journal prompts, and action steps
Recordings of all sessions (so you never miss a thing)
Nervous system regulation techniques to help you stay grounded while dating
Coaching specific to the post-divorce experience—addressing fears, trust issues, and starting over
Limited to 20 participants for intimate, personalized support





6 live group coaching sessions with teaching, somatic practices, and Q&A
Comprehensive workbook with exercises, journal prompts, and action steps
Recordings of all sessions (so you never miss a thing)
Nervous system regulation techniques to help you stay grounded while dating
Coaching specific to the post-divorce experience—addressing fears, trust issues, and starting over
Limited to 20 participants for intimate, personalized support



Most dating advice focuses on tactics—what to say, where to go, how to act. But after divorce, you need more than tips and tricks. You need to heal the patterns that led to your past relationship ending and build new neural pathways for secure, healthy love.



Nervous system regulation for dating anxiety
Somatic practices to reconnect with your body's wisdom
Healing attachment wounds and trauma responses
Embody confidence and clarity when choosing and meeting potential partners.
Evidence-based dating frameworks from relationship science
Clear action steps and accountability
How to choose partners who are actually available and right for you
Communication skills for healthy relationships
You're divorced or separated and ready to date again (or thinking about it)
You're tired of repeating old patterns and want to choose differently this time
You feel anxious, overwhelmed, or confused about modern dating
You want a clear strategy—not just "putting yourself out there" and hoping for the best
You're ready to do the inner work while taking outer action
You want support from others who truly understand what it's like to start over

I'm Kevin Van Liere
Expert Divorce Coach with 6 years of experience working with more than 500 people annually. He is the author of 3 books including the Dating with Confidence workbook.
He has been divorced for 8 years and has been through the trials and tribulations of dating himself. By combining the powerful tools of the Rebuilders program with personal experience he brings compassion and wisdom to the process.
Certified Divorce and Transformational Love Coach with over a decade of coaching experience and 23 years as a leader in mind-body wellness. After her own divorce in 2013, Kathryn discovered her calling to help others transform their pain into possibility. Kathryn brings a unique blend of personal insight, professional expertise, and somatic wisdom to guide you through one of life's most challenging transitions. Her holistic approach integrates emotional healing with practical tools, empowering you to rebuild your life with clarity, confidence, and renewed hope for love.

I'm Kathryn Beachy

I'm Kevin Van Liere
Expert Divorce Coach with 6 years of experience working with more than 500 people annually. He is the author of 3 books including the Dating with Confidence workbook.

I'm Kathryn Beachy
Certified Divorce and Transformational Love Coach with over a decade of coaching experience and 23 years as a leader in mind-body wellness. After her own divorce in 2013, Kathryn discovered her calling to help others transform their pain into possibility. Kathryn brings a unique blend of personal insight, professional expertise, and somatic wisdom to guide you through one of life's most challenging transitions. Her holistic approach integrates emotional healing with practical tools, empowering you to rebuild your life with clarity, confidence, and renewed hope for love.
Early Bird (Register by December 15): $497
Regular Price (After December 15): $597
Add-on: 3 1:1 Coaching sessions with our expert coaches to deep dive into your unique relationship and dating desires and blocks. Can be started at any time!: $450 (normally priced at $600)
Payment plans available upon request




All sessions are recorded and available within 24 hours. You'll have lifetime access to the recordings.
No! This course is perfect whether you're actively dating, thinking about dating, or just want to prepare before you start.
There's no specific requirement, but this course is designed for people who have moved through the initial grief and are ready to look forward.
Yes! The principles and practices work regardless of age, location, or how long you were married. The nervous system and attachment patterns are universal.
That's exactly why this course exists. We'll help you identify those patterns and rewire them before you step back into dating.
“I joined this course terrified of dating again. My last relationship left me full of self-doubt and fear. The somatic practices and weekly coaching helped me calm my nervous system and trust myself again. I recently started seeing someone new, and for the first time, I’m not repeating my old patterns. I feel grounded and confident.”
“I thought dating after divorce was about finding the right app or saying the right things. I learned it’s about understanding myself first. Kathryn and Kevin’s framework gave me clarity on what I want and how to recognize healthy partners. This isn’t surface-level advice—it’s deep work that changes how you approach love.”
“The small group format made all the difference. Hearing others share the same fears helped me feel less alone. The workbook and guided exercises helped me reconnect with my body and intuition. I left with a clear blueprint for dating that feels authentic, not forced. It’s the most empowering thing I’ve done since my divorce.”
“The small group felt safe and honest. Hearing other people talk about the same fears helped me stop blaming myself. The workbook questions pushed me to slow down, listen to my body, and stop ignoring red flags. I finished the course with a simple dating plan that fits who I am now, not who I was in my marriage.”
“I walked in feeling shut down and guarded. Week by week, the exercises helped me calm my anxiety and speak up about what I want. The group support made me feel seen and normal. I left with clear boundaries, a list of my non negotiables, and the confidence to date without losing myself again.”
“I felt stuck between wanting connection and being terrified of repeating the past. This course gave me language for my patterns and tools to reset my nervous system when I feel triggered. The dating blueprint we created made everything feel doable, step by step. For the first time since my divorce, I feel hopeful about love.”

Dating with confidence and clarity

Trusting your intuition about who's right for you

Feeling excited (not terrified) about meeting someone new

Breaking old patterns and choosing differently

Moving toward the healthy, loving relationship you deserve
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